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Cheating Guilt

Just over a year ago I cheated twice on my boyfriend with a guy I knew from work. I know its really bad but me and my bf were going through a bad patch at the time. We're still together and stronger than ever and although he still hasn't found out about it but I feel so guilty. He has been so nice to me and feel rotten for doing that to him. Am I a bad person? How do I get over the guilt?

Story shared: 14/02/2007 21:27:08

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#1 by holly on 15/02/2007 10:37:54 (id-477).
you know people say u have to be honest , it will be the best thing 4 u and yor relationship, and wen its all in the open only then can move on ect, ect. THEY LIED just forget about it , its in the past and it should stay in the past,it would be in yours or your partners best interest trust me!!!! it will hurt him alot if u tell him and even if he forgives u , it will be on his mind all the time, just pull yorself together ,forget the past and get on with yor life..... trust me i know about these things .. good luck and look forward to the next 40 or 50 years together knowing u did the wright thing and kept or mouth SHUT!!!!!!!

#2 by Grace on 05/03/2007 17:57:54 (id-500).
Holly is so right. It is far better to not tell him. I know it sounds horrible and dishonest, but I think it's kinder. I think if it was me I wouldn't want to know.

#3 by dummy on 13/03/2007 12:26:46 (id-508).
i did the same thing. it is almost a mirror image! sacry. i think it is also best to keep quiet about it. it only happened once and will never happen again. yes the guilt is killing me but i think it is my punshiment for what i did.

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