beautiful but lonely
i READ this site with intrigue. I am a 45 yr old v attractive blonde. so Im told, 2 kids and so so alone. I live in a small middle class town full of couples. The women appear to be terrified of me, the men appear to fancy me. I rarely get invited and new single female friends dump ,me as soon as they find a man!! I am absolutely at a loss, feel like an observer, feel sad, lonely, ostracised. My best friend disowned me when I left my violent partner, he became a couple immediately and so still gets the invites. My friends husband rang to say she no longer wanted me around as I was too attractive!!!
I am so sick of being penalised for being pretty and having a brain and having the guts to be single!!
Story shared: 12/02/2007 22:47:09
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so to some it up there are alot of people who would like to be yor shoes! and dont worry things will work out they always do.
and as far as yor x hubby, wot go`s around comes around and thats a promise.. good luck !!!
You have two children, so you are successful as a mother because you have given birth twice.
If women are really terrified of you, it is probably because they are, simply because you are doing those things which they would like to do but cannot or will not because of a lack of confidence in themselves.
Men may well fancy you, you are attractive after all and you are single, why would they not do so. Please remember that the final and ultimate choice is always yours. Everyone may look, only the really special ones get to come close.
Not being invited to a dinner party because you are a threat, is probably more to do with your host's insecurity than your looks and presence, and lets face it, they probably cannot cook and entertain as well as you could any way.
All in all girl, I would say that you have it all, please stop feeling bad about yourself and only surround yourself with those who will appreciate you for the beauty that you so obviously are and treat you accordingly. You are the best example of you that there will ever be. Do not share that lightly.
Kind thoughts.
My child hood sweet heart of nearly 17 years had an affair with a girl 9 years my junior. It just broke my heart and I could never forgive him. He has also just moved on with the girl and they are now moving in with each other. It really hurts me but I do believe in karma.
I goto the gym and swim regulary and even do a night school classes.
It's easier said then done for people to judge, it is tough!!!
Even after nearly 2 years on my own and kissed too many frogs. I will still remain positve there is a special person out their for me and you!!!
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