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i'm 23 years old married with 2 children, been with my husband for 6 years, he works really hard to give us all a great life but i'm not content, i have a 4 year old daughter that was the perfect princess untill she started school in oct now she's rude beyond belief the change in her is unbelievable, my husband works nights so is asleep during the day i'm at home with my 6 month old son , all my friends work i'm so lonely and bored i don't know what to do i get angry so quickly i sit and cry during the day i have no where to go and nothing to do i feel lost, i love my family but want so much more i don't want to sound selfish - i know i'm lucky to have a beautiful family but i feel like screaming sometimes! thank you for listening

Story shared: 19/01/2007 12:53:25

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#1 by Sam on 22/01/2007 23:42:26 (id-451).
Ah there's nothing greedy about wanting the best for urself,, and ur not ungreatfull for what u got. I really cant think of much other than u need a change in lifestyle really,,, get ur husband to work towards day shifts or get training in something else mabey..? not easy for some but u never know. And if u need to get out seriously plead with some people u know or either of ur relatives to look after the kids for a few hours mabey..?
If ur daughters changed since she's gone school u need to kinda ask her y she acts like she does politely and kinda try and sit her down and talk it out y she does it or even get some1 else that she always listens to to do it.
Seriously, there must be a way around it,, jus plug away at ideas with the husband and just try and arange something thats gonna help u fel bit better about urself

#2 by Sharlie on 17/02/2007 23:28:29 (id-484).
I'm guessing we both found this site the same way 'Someone please help me' in Google!
I have 2 young kids. A 1 year old Girl and a 4 year old boy (who started school in september) he was the perfect child until he started chool but other kids influences have changed that and he, like your daughter, is now rude and disobedient.

I have a partner (father to both) who has put me in so much sh*t I am wondering if I have been the victim of a conman, to the point that my parents are about to lose everything they have ever worked for as he persuaded my dad to garauntor a £100,000 loan behind my mums back.

I feel so responsible even though I know I didnt do anything wrong, I am so lonely, no 25 year old should be going through this.

I understand your feelings of loneliness.

Do you feel uncontent because of the fact your husband works nights and your on your own or are you uncontent because you want something different in life? e.g not happy in your marriage

#3 by Bee on 10/05/2007 14:19:56 (id-567).
You`re not selfish at all ! theres nothing wrong with wanting more to make you a happier, better person. As for getting worked up and that, why not try take up a hobby which would take your mind off things and maybe help you de-stress? Or maybe try getting a part-time job or do some volunteer work to take your mind off things?
Hope this has helped and good luck!

Bee x

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