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My partner and I have just given up smoking together as we were always told that if you give up together you can support one another.
But this is different, I have just broken his nose and am locked in the flat he has all controll and I cant do anything , I love him and think that this is because we are giving up, is it really worth all this? I have been with him for nearly nine years and married for 1 1/2 years and it has never got like this.
I knew that smoking was bad for you but I didnt know that giving up was hard is it really worth it? We are both on day 10.
I have called my mother for help and she has just said to basically "sleep on it"
I cant go on and really need proffessional help and can think of nothing else I am begging for your help I dont know what else to do!

Story shared: 11/01/2007 02:10:09

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#1 by Di on 12/01/2007 14:50:16 (id-425).
Hi. My boyfriend and I also gave up smoking 10 days ago. We had some really bad arguments on the first 3 days, but as under normal circumstances we rearely argue, we knew it was related to the smoking and tried to be more forgiving. We have argued since last weekend and both feel rally proud that we ar enow non-smokers - so for us it was definately worth it. I feel I can breath better, I no longer smell have saved loads of money and feel generalyy hapier in myself. My boyfriend is ashmatic and he hardly used his inhalers over the past few days, which just shows how much it is helping him. I used the Allen car Easy Way book and can honestly say after the first 3-4 days I felt fine and am happy. I would reccommend you go out and buy that book (or get your boyfriend to if he won;t let you out of the house) as it is brilliant. what you need to remember is that smoking is all in the mind, the actual physical addiciton is very minimal and only last a few days. If you smoke again now you will only feel sick and get hooked on nicotine again which will make you more agressive and upset - why waste 10 days of agony when it can only get easier? You will need to quit at some point in your life otherwise you are going to die of some horrible disease, get wrinkles & feel like a social outcast. You ask is it worth it, what you should be asking is, is my life worth it, and yes of course it is. So don't quit qutting!!

#2 by jay on 12/01/2007 16:31:40 (id-426).
sounds like you've lost control luv, if you're the one who's breaking peoples noses.

do the fella a favour and chill down, if you need to relax eat some space cake and get drunk. You will not feel like smoking once you are completely inedbriated.

failing that smash out some exercise in the comfort of your own home, it will take your mind off things. give your boyfriend some toffe on the mace and all will be back to normal, nay, greatly improved.

#3 by Amber on 30/01/2007 01:37:27 (id-453).
Keep trying! Once I broke the T.V. giving up. It smoked and I had to call the fire brigade out! Your mind is playing tricks on you and trying to convince you you've got to have a ciggy. I haven't smoked for 5 years now and the best part is being in control of my feelings again.

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