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Can't Stop Thinking of Him

Ever since I worked at my mums work for a few months in the summer I can't stop thinking about her boss. He's everything I would want in a guy and more. He is tall, dark hair, piercing blue eyes, got a GSOH and cheers me up when im feeling down. The only problem is he's married with 2 young kids. My love life is good with my boyfriend but he's nothin compared to this guy. I love flirting with him, and he tells me he like me too but i can only text him when he's at work else his wife will find out. I really really like him and despite the age gap (i'm 19, he's 34) I can't stop thinking about him. My boyfriend looked at my phone recently and seen pics and texts from him, he hates him and doesn't want me goin near him again but its so hard. Id give everything up 2 be with him but i doubt he'd ever leave his wife. What should i do?

Story shared: 31/12/2006 19:27:51

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#1 by A. on 01/01/2007 11:57:52 (id-379).
Hey
Well in all honesty i think you should try your best to get over him. I dont think you are cruel enough to want to cause problems in his family, especially if he has two young kids. Can you really see a future with him? It seems more like a fantasy, especially as you say he would never leave his wife. I appreciate that i dont know you, but i just dont think it would work out. A 34year old man with 2 kids has diffrent values and wants to a 19year old girl. You have plenty of time to find someone else, so I suggest you just move on, i dont suppose you want to break up his marriage... and im sure you will find someone else to be happy with!
hope this helps and good luck :)
x

#2 by Sam on 02/01/2007 02:00:25 (id-388).
No1 is at fault here.. you dont choose to love some1 it chooes you. How u deal with it 'is' the thing you choose. I wont tell you how to choose but i'l try and help u think about this differntly..,? This is something that really can't go on like it is,, if his wife finds out and she gets mad with him its going to destroy a perfectly good maridge and possiably change the life of the 2 kids as well. If she doesn't already know, then look how ur boyfriend is takeing it,, she'l porbably take it exsactly the same way he's been doing.. Its al heated and that never helps anyone get things stright. IF you haven't already i'd sugest that u sit down and talk to him and seriously comunicate every single last individual feeling and thought u have of him, with him. Then if he can say exsactly the same back then that something that's going a little deeper, but if not, you'l know where u stand, and somehwere in the middle,, your both going to have an understanding on whats going on between the 2 of you and then nothing is to be misslead and you'l hopefully work something out..? Hope i've done something for you,

#3 by Microsoft OEM Software on 09/03/2012 04:38:30 (id-8259).
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