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pregnant and worried

where do i start ive got kidney disease my left kidney is 13% function with 3 kidney stones inside, my right kidney is 87% im 6 weeks pregnant my boyfriend keeps telling me to get an abortion hes been quite nasty i dont want an abortion i carnt i need to try,im 34 i have a 9 year old boy who i love so much and i hate been selfish in taking this risk but i know my son would love a brother or sister ive had 2 misscarages which were painfull and the thought of it happening again scares me also my hormones are all over the place i feel like im crying constantly i have been with my patrner for 2 years and i dont want us to finish i live him and im missing him so much i really need his support cus it goin to be difficult anyway i just want everything to be ok

Story shared: 30/10/2006 00:16:49

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#1 by Sarah on 30/10/2006 22:39:24 (id-279).
I feel i'm in a very similar situation, I want my baby too, and he is being nasty about it too, even thou it's what he wanted. I think you should follow your heart, but ask your little boy whether he does want a brother or sister. Maybe your boyfriend is being so nasty because he doesn't want to see you hurt again. Although to help reduce the risks, he should be supporting you all the more. I wish we could understand men sometimes. I dont know what else i can do either. So my heart is with you. Let us know how things go. and good luck x x

#2 by Christopher John on 08/11/2006 18:40:16 (id-289).
Hi there
Thank you for coming onto the site.
I hope you get all the advice and comments that you so deserve.
Good luck with everything and sending you love and support.
Chris
x

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