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most readers will think im incredibly stupid. but im going to lay it out and hopefully you can help put my mind at rest some how. I just turned 17 and ive started seeing this guy i've known for a long time but never really spoke to until a few months ago. I really like him. He's something completely different and ive never felt like this before and neither has he. I know i will not find another person im this close to and wont feel this way for someone again because i do not get put off this guy in any way. But heres the problem. I'm thinking too seriously about him. I'm too young to be in a serious relationship arent I ? I sometimes imagine what it would be like to spend as much as my life as possible with this person. its crazy. im not as comfortable with anyone as i am with him. i can spend a whole day with him without getting sick of them. We talk for ages and share stories and secrets. something we have never shared with anyone else before. But its just people say u havent seen everything yet. ur young dont waste time on one person. but should i throw away what i have with this guy for something i may never find? or to find the same thing again which i think is unlikely? i just wish i was older so i could keep him. all ive ever wanted and will ever need is right here.

thank you for reading. please help even though im being silly.

Story shared: 24/06/2008 20:59:52

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#1 by Lauren on 25/06/2008 07:26:45 (id-1067).
I'd say your thinking about it to much. Just chill out and let the relationship go it's course.
If it gets serious then it does if not then o well. If you over analyze it instead of just enjoying it while you have it then you could end up messing it up without intention.

#2 by Carmen on 26/06/2008 00:39:58 (id-1074).
Cherish and appreciate what you have. Why throw it away for something "better"? You don't know what future holds for you. If you are planning to be in a relationship anyway some day, why not now. Unless you have other plans for your life now and here, like travelling the world for a year, or studying in another country, or becoming a nun, etc., then I can't see why you should give up something you are comfortable with. However, only you will now.

#3 by cruz on 05/07/2008 06:39:04 (id-1086).
sry to tell u this but whatever has a beginning, has an end. the good will not stay good forever. im not trying to put you down, but these are principles of life.

#4 by Kassie on 08/07/2008 03:48:30 (id-1092).
Never listen to people when they tell you that you are too young. "You're not capable of feeling this emotion because your only 17". That is like telling a 5 year old that they can't feel fear because they are 5. Follow your heart, do what makes you happy, but don't throw away your life. If he truly loves you, he will want you to make something of yourself, go to school, get your priorities straight. Being serious at this age is fine, as long as you don't let go of yourself.

Good Luck.

#5 by nothing on 09/08/2008 11:12:48 (id-1135).
if you are perfectly comfortable around him, why bother about age differences?

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