My best friend had an abortion.
My best friend had an abortion a few months ago. And i am worried about her.She already has 2 girls,and fell pregnant about 4months after her youngest daughter was born.She is 24.
I have also had an abortion, so i do understand her feelings of "have i done the right thing?". And i too have 3 children and am also 24 years old.
We have spoken on the phone the day after she had the termination (we live about 5hours away from each other). And she told me that she felt like a weight had been lifted off her shoulders.
Having had a termination when my youngest was about 6months old i understood.I do not regret what i had done - i do feel guilty sometimes, i could never have another baby, beacause i had a termination, it wouldnt be right for me personally.
But although my Best friend, shares these views with me - she seems to want to blame somebody for it happening - or as she said to me "for taking my baby away".
Now her husband to be was with her, and already has a child with someone else - and also had a partner before that which was his 1st love and was killed in a road accident.
Now this is where i became concerned, she told me that there was a spirit in the room with her. And that spirit is who took her baby away from her.Which she said was her partners ex that had been in the road accident.
She doesnt even know what her name is, what she looks like, or where she used to live- nothing. Her partner doesnt want to talk about his ex- only to get on with his life.
When she described the "spirit" too her partner, he was shocked because she had descirbed her to a "T".
I dont know what to say or do to help her, as she is not happy with this "spirit" taking her baby away - she wanted it to be her granparents.
Does anyone have any idea as to how i can help her? Or been through anything like this before?
I have told her to see the doctor and explain what she said to me.
Which she has told me that - a doctor can not help her.
Sorry its so long.
I hope some one can help me with giving her advise!
Thankyou.
But my friend
Story shared: 27/05/2008 16:50:27
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