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my boyfriend of two years found out i was pregnant, he didnt feel he wanted a child because i already had two of my own, that he cares for dearly, now i am pregnant and he wants me to abort our child for a second time because hes not ready i will admit that i previously had 3 abortions and i never lived them down theres guilt for life i do not want an abortion and now my relationship is on the line i told him that i refuse to get an abortion regardless of how hard life will seem who knows what the future holds i am a woman i am taking a stand i am 22 and have two children thank god for the help of social services and programs until i finish school and start making real money i will struggle in the end it will pay off god will never put more on us then we can bear, and lets leave these sorry men alone who run at the thought of responsibility that alone shows us just how much they actually care they are selfish and only look out for themselves never abort ya children...you may regret it the rest of your life

Story shared: 06/05/2008 00:05:26

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#1 by shell on 08/06/2008 10:36:20 (id-1018).
Hi. I have just read your post. I notice you wrote this a month ago so it may or may not already be to late? I had an abortion almost six months ago mainly because the father didnt want the baby. I have regretted my decision eversince and i have felt nothing but guilt, loss and hurt ever since. Your circumstances are however different to mine in that i dont have any children, so i regret my decision even more. I think that you need to consider whats best for you and your children and what you really want. Never have an abortion unless its what you want because you may end up regretting it. You said you have already have aborted 2 or 3 babies for you boyfriend? If he loved you he would support you and not pressurise you into having another abortion. The best advise i can give is to really think it through and do what you want. If you want to keep it and you feel you can provide for the baby, even with the possibility of being single then do so. If you decide that an abortion is best for you then please be sure its what you want. Dont let your boyfriend influence you. Please if you decide to have another abortion then please look at suitable contraception until your ready have more children. Im sure that you will find someone who loves you and wants to have children with you one day.

#2 by one of those sorry men on 10/06/2008 01:56:33 (id-1020).
see, you've had a bad experience with ONE guy, and then tar all of us with the same brush

You're 22, have 2 kids, had 3 abortions and are debating the fourth? and you can't support yourself? ("thank god for the help of social services" translates quit literally into "thank god somebody else will pay for my getting laid") I'd suggest you learn the meaning of the word "no" (or at least the word "condom") before you start criticizing every guy on the planet.
Or you could just take the easy route and blame men for the fact that you dont seem to be able to keep your legs together for 5 minutes

Glad to see that misandry (look it up) is working out for you.

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