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Feeling Lonely

I know this doesnt seem like a big deal and I should be grateful that I have people close to me but I still feel so lonely. My friends can't be bothered to talk to me anymore, if I'm not with my boyfriend im on my own, He is my only friend in the world but I don't want to rely on him. I feel so pathetic and a loner because he's got loads of mates and I don't have anyone. I don't talk to people in my family much because they are always arguing. We are saving for a house so I can't afford to go out much to meet new people. I don't talk to many people at work because bitching is all they're capable of and I'm not like that. I'm so depressed having just one person to rely on in my life, I'm a nice person, a good friend and I don't know why no-one can be bothered with me anymore. Does anyone have advise or are in same position as me?

Story shared: 08/04/2008 22:02:39

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#1 by Chaarger1 on 09/04/2008 00:05:17 (id-952).
I don't want to say that "I know how you feel" because I hate that, but I think I do. I have people close to me, I'm even married and I have friends but I still feel that my pain is my pain. The people around me met me while I was wearing a mask and they liked it so that's what they like, so why change? I want you to know that your not alone and there are people that do care and people will lend an ear even if it is via keyboard. I am here if it's someone you need to vent to (lord knows I could use a person like that)

#2 by locket on 24/04/2008 18:30:16 (id-974).
I sometimes feel the same as you someties i got a boyfriend and he is really close to me and he is my best friend and my lover. I do have really close friends but sometimes they dont want to talk to me but what i do is not bovering talking to them for a week or so then they know how i feel.
You shouldn't woory they might have other stuff on there mind or something. And you did say that you dont bover talking to your family but i think you should tell how you feel then they might help you.

I hope i could help. Good luck ! x x x

#3 by Ronnie on 24/05/2008 14:08:08 (id-1011).
iTs really lovely that you can see all this going on around you and to be able to stay away as painful as it is, I think this hurts more the truth hitting you .
You feel like a lost soul which way do you turn and whom do you turn too, you feel like you have no soul group to connect with it is so hard but steeping away from these other people caught up in negative and toxic actions is a huge relief now its what to do next, I find reading self help books helps, I sit wiht my emotions and what I am feeling and bring whatever is making me unhappy up to the surface, today I feel lonely and why me as I have a lot of past baggage to ditch that I thought would go away , what i do is then get myself to the book shop or on line and find the books to help rad them and learn something new about myself and how to deal with it, it calms me down , distracts me and also enables me to help others. I also ask my angels for their divine guidance and help and miracles do occur. Try to stay strong and remember your self love , your a beautiful, kind and caring human being who is here for a reason you have to now find your reason.Hope this helps and my thoughts are with you

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