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I am feeling depressed lately, its been building up more over the last few years. Any optimism I had before is vanishing and slipping away before my eyes. The days are gone where I used to look forward to anything and when I used to jump out of bed in the mornings to get ready and go out. All I do now is get out of bed and and sit around in my dressing gown feeling bored and depressed. I feel as though there is no one here for me or no one to talk to to share my problems. I feel alone in this world. The family i have live miles away they arent much help. My partner is the silent type, he is always on mute but i love him. Why me, why do we end up invisible and like out of date food on the supermarket shelf.

Story shared: 17/01/2008 20:39:41

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#1 by Shandy on 17/01/2008 22:49:51 (id-872).
Your not invisible, You partner is the silent type, maybe you need to speak to him... Let him know that you feel invisible, Not in the women way, not in the way that you just expect him to realise... I mean, sit him down and say, these words as they are "I am not happy, I feel invisible" Dont expect him to say anything, just tell him, tell him you dont expect him to do anything but listen, cause us guys try to solve problems, we dont understand the whole having to say things without fixing them. (Not speaking for eveyone here)... Give him a big hug, (At the end of the day. Do you know how he feels? Us guys bottle things up, as we *feel* we need to be strong for everyone.) I know how it is... Its hard to feel the love and the excitement that everyday can provide us... Try some confidence hypnosis... (Seriously i was skeptical) But, if you dont even believe in hypnosis, its always good to hear a voice saying everything that is wonderfull, beautifull and exciting about you... About every single living person... The potential... The only thing that has changed is your perception.. You know this (Hope im not being patronising, im not doing intentionaly) But trust me, get yourself a hobby, See some things, make time for it... Make time for you and your hobby... Take pictures, Try to find one thing each day that really makes you smile... Take a picture of it... And when your down, ride it out... Dont expect to be happy, ride it out, just think, wow, tomorrow will be different, if i make it different... (see im trying to fix things typical bloke thing) you can help yourself, better than anybody else can help you... Much Love... always... Shandy. :)

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