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Alone: For better or worse?

As much as I try to love this person they keep giving me reasons to be angry and upset. How much can one person take before they walk away? How many chances do they deserve? Can they really love me if they know how much I'm hurting?
They say relationships go through bad patches, but how do you know if this a bad patch or a bad relationship? I'm putting myaelf second, giving everything but now I feel bad. I've tried to end it today, and I feel down.

Story shared: 25/10/2007 21:40:23

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#1 by steven t on 25/10/2007 21:55:54 (id-738).
it sounds like your doing to much for this person.if your hurting this much you should let this person go.
YES it will hurt and be very upsetting but later you will thank yourself.
Mabe this person loves you just as much as you love him/her
but dont know how to make you happy.
it sounds like alot of old chesse but lision to your heart.
i hope things work out.
regards steven t

#2 by Karen on 25/10/2007 22:04:03 (id-739).
Steven, thank you for your comment.
Your right, better to be sorry now than later. I never thought about this before but I did tell them what it takes to make me happy. I realise now that they just didn't want to. Things could have been good but I can't keep the relationship going by myself.

#3 by steven t on 25/10/2007 22:17:41 (id-740).
speak to this person agien and tell them how you feel explaine how or what thay have to do.you should'nt have to but some people need it spelt out for them to understand.
give it a week or two and see if things change.if things don't change them you know what to do.
if things go well witch i hope they do. you can have me to thank.LOL
i wish you well karen.xxxxxxxxx

#4 by J on 02/11/2007 12:02:18 (id-756).
Good luck with this, I have recently come to the same decision, it takes too much energy to keep a relationship going by yourself. If, like me, you find that all is well as long as it is on the other person's terms, then it is not a true relationship. Though they will undoubtedly say that they love you, it shows up in actions and behaviour, like putting you first. Good luck and remember it is not the end of the world to be on your own. I much prefer it to constantly editing myself to fit into someone else's idea of who I should be.

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