hurting

#1 by Dee on 26/09/2007 20:48:07 (id-642).
I am so sorry for your loss, I dont really know what to say to make you feel any better but I hear your pain, it must be the worst feeling in the world to lose your child. I only have one son and if anything like that happened to him I dont know what I would do. I can only say to you that you have to carry on for your other children, they need you so much right now, even though its really difficult, my heart really goes out for you and my sympathies and if you ever want anyone to talk to im here for you..

#3 by ray on 13/10/2007 21:58:35 (id-669).
it's such a tragic story, and i'm sure these are the most challenging times of your life. I can't imagine how awful it would feel to lose your child like that, and can only imagine that someone like you, writing on this website must be very strong, to have endured it and also care so much about the children that you want to be strong for them is also honourable.

But do not forget about yourself, there are other people that must have been through the same, perhaps there's a group out there you could join. People who have been through similar and may need you just as you need them to communicate, share and feel that you are not alone.

Wishing you all the best, remember there are so many people who care.... good luck. I hope you are ok :-)

#4 by Nic on 04/11/2007 18:39:48 (id-757).
Hi there its totally shit to have lost yor little son God bless him and all the little ones. It must be so hard for you> I have come through meningitus myself not that long ago but Im sending this message to try and help not talk about myself although my husband died suddenly last year and I do know how it might feel how to ose soemone so dear to you> I dont know you or your circumtsances all I can say is that its not your fault and no matter what you did ot feel you didnt do it wouldnt have made any difference. im sure your son is with our Lord right now and as my friend would say with the 'special people' being looked after . Every time you look up at the stars he ist there he is there every day every moment you feel sorrow but he is at peace now. This doesnt take away how very raw you must feel and how much you miss him, take one step at a time and let your friends and family support you . You dont have to be strong all the time, shreeek, howl and give yourself time to heal with your family . enjoy sharing photos of him so he is always ther for you and them, take care of yourself above all , love Nicola X

#5 by lou on 29/01/2008 04:42:51 (id-879).
i think u r so brave and i cant begin 2 understand wot u r goin through, one of my biggest fears is 2 loose sum 1 close 2 me or 2 loose sum 1 at all.i guess we all av 2 try and get on with our lives.u will never 4 get ur baby and he will always live on in u .please b strong not only 4 ure self but 4 others like u .u r not alone.and i really do look up 2 u and i dont really no wat to say apart from try and keep up the eye spirit.my friends baby died 4 yrs ago with neumonia n its true that time is a great healer,but u never 4 get the pain that u av.b strong and talk 2 a member of ure family about wot u feel and dont think u can hold it all in .please talk 2 sum 1 any 1

#6 by Carol on 12/02/2008 18:27:03 (id-888).
I am so sorry to hear of this and I pray that you will have peace and hope that life will at some time be happy for you once more. This world is so fragile with so much brokeness, sadness and evil. We do not know fully why some die so young, but it is a tradgedy for you more than your precious son who is in the most beautiful place ever now, so loved and happy. I do not know why this happened, but I do know that Jesus can walk with you and give you his supernatural peace and his strength and his hope. "Come to me all you who are weary and heavy-laden and I will give you rest." Matthew 11, Rev 21. Tell him of your anger and your pain and ask him to pick you up,and answer specific prayers to show you he is real.

#7 by nicola on 17/04/2008 13:54:18 (id-961).
my son had it aswell i still feel lucky 13yrs later to still have him im so sorry 4 u

True life stories.