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no happiness in their lives

right this is how my story goes, I am a happily married woman and am trying to get on and make the most of my life. However everyone around me seems to be unhappy with their lives and they seem to be jealous of the love that my husband and I have got together. For instance my sister in laws husband left her and she is now a single mother bringing up two young children and she is jealous of us. My sister is single and cant find happiness either. My cousin is single and cant find happiness, my other cousin is married but unhappy. My aunty is widowed and unhappy. My brother is single but ok. Its getting to the point where I feel afraid to be happy because it upsets someone. I live quite far away from all these people and im glad I do because I feel they would try to bring me down. I dont want to be unsympathetic but some years ago when my first marriage ended in divorce I never got any sympathy of any of them, infact they have never really done anything for me in life. I feel like I just want to get on with my new life and I do wish these people would find happiness but leave me alone to enjoy my life..

Story shared: 17/09/2007 10:58:55

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#1 by uhuh on 20/09/2007 23:42:24 (id-635).
If you know what these people are going through WHY THE HELL ARE YOU BEING SO DAMN SELFISH!!!!!!!!!! They are lucky that you don't live on their doorsteps waiting to rub their noses in your"happiness"! Watch who you poo on on the way up sweetheart cos you never know who you'll meet on your way down again! With an attitude like yours I'm sure it won't be long until your on your own and lonely again!!!!

#2 by whateverchick on 24/09/2007 04:33:37 (id-638).
Don't listen to uhuh. Misery loves company. That's all. If you can find happiness, focus on that and don't let other bring you down. Happiness can be so fleeting you've got to hold on to it whenever you recognize it for as long as you can. I think you've got the right idea in just trying to avoid them. Or sympothize with them and feel greatful you've found better luck. There are so many people that hold on to their pain even when happiness is knocking on their door. Don't let them make you one of them.

#3 by ラフティング on 23/09/2008 17:16:16 (id-1250).
見てよ。

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