I Hate Her Guts!!!!!!!!!
I despise the very thought of my sister in law! I hate her face, I hate her voice, I hate they fact she exsists- the only thing that I can say I like about her is the fact she lives 40miles away!!!
My husband is the third of four. "It", I mean she is the youngest and the most irritating and spoiled, selfish woman you would never wish to meet.
Problem is no one else can see through the " precious little girl" facade.
If, as a couple, my husband I do something, she and her husband have to do it bigger and better.
My husband is the one out of 4 that will do anything for his parents, yet she is the who gets all the praise. They and the elder siblings can't do enough for her, and they think the sun shines from her backside-well it is big enough!!!She talks down to everyone and thinks she knows everything and no one ever contradicts her. I can't stand being in her company so much that I won't go gatherings if I know she'll be there. I hate the thought of her speaking to, or having anthing to do with, my kids and yet I know she has to for my husbands sake.
I hate her so much that it's affecting my relationship with her child and more importantly, my husband's relationship with his nephew.
For my husbands sake I need to know what to do, she is his sister and I know he loves her, but he knows how I feel and says he understands but says its always been that way in the family.
I think maybe I am irrational but I can't help the way I feel and I get on fine with the siblings and my parents in law and even her husband so what is it about this person that I cannot warm too?
When my second child child was born, after a 3 day labour, she was the first to hold him, after us, and I could really have smashed her face in but I was so tired and didn't want to upset "the family" that I just held it back and the resentment began to fester away until I'm at the point now where I have all this venom aimed solely at her.
You probably think it's all my fault but really it's not. Heres a catalogue of her vileness.
1. She blatantly called my husband and his father ignorant to their faces, showing herself up too be the ignorant one!
2. She told me that she couldn't believe how beautiful my children are, when we are so, well...not!
3. She bought a puppy, with money she borrowed from her Mum, and then abandoned it with her parents because her new husband is allergic- her parents are elderly.
4. On a night out she was introduced to one of my friends and before my friend even spoke, "It" had shot her a very dirty look and said " Oh I don't think so" and flounced off.
Oh I could go on and on but I don't want to! I just want someone to validate the fact that I'm not going round the bend and that she in fact a nasty peice of work! Simple fact is I hate her!!!
SORRY To whinge but I had to get it off my chest. THANX
Story shared: 06/07/2007 16:20:35
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