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I know other people have got worse problems than me but I can't cope with mine. I've found a good job with good pay and a good reputation but the people I work with hardly speak to me only to tell me I've done something wrong and just when I thought they were ok with me I heard 1 making a nasty comment about me and the others laughing. I'm trying me best to do a good job and be nice to people so why are they bein like this? It's really depressing me as I feel so lonely (I hardly have any friends) Please can someone help before I do something stupid

Story shared: 01/06/2007 22:47:07

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#1 by x-billie-x on 02/06/2007 10:42:18 (id-584).
its really horrible what these people are doing. However it is quite normal....a group of people who hav been together for time tend not to accept and choose not to like newcomers no matter how nice they are. dont worry about it keep trying to be nice or try to start a conversation with one of them or talk to them about how they r bothering u and they will eventually change their minds. It may take time but u should pull through. and if they are still the same after time then just think to urself that u wouldnt want to be friends with people who would be like that anyway. in my oppinion nobody who acts like that should get away with it. id like to say play them at their own game but that wont make things better so take note of what i said at the beginning. take care and good luck xoxox

#2 by XOXOTHEFLIRTXOXO on 06/06/2007 06:02:38 (id-586).
HEY " NEVER SAY U ARE LONELY CUASE THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE THERE FOR U . WAT THOSE OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING 2 U IS NORMAL " BUT "CRUEL" THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEBODY OUT THERE TRYIN 2 HURT SOMEONE ELSE AND TRYIN 2 BRING THEM DOWN ....... IT MAY BE JEALOUSY ". DONT LET THEM GET 2 U AND YOUR MIND " IF U DO THAT IS NO BODYS ACOMPLISHMENT BUT THERES AND DONT LET THEM WIN BECUASE THATS ALL THEY ARE TRYIN TO DO 2 U . SO STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF AND BE STRONG AND SHOW THEM WHOS THE BOSS " DONT TAKE AWAY YOUR LIFE FOR ANY 1 ELSE . IT WOULD BE A BIG MISTAKE

#3 by LittleMissAndrews on 11/11/2007 22:55:10 (id-762).
Unfortunatly one of life's snags. People can be cruel as well as kind. Try to ignore it, focus on your job and aim to get all you can from the workplace. If the problem persists it will not be from the lack of effort or your professionalism. It will show what a good character you are and will help you get a better carrier. A good learning curb. I know how you feel, I came out of a job where they were all talking behind my back and working there was gastly and the atmosphere poor. All because I was young and knew more. Well I kept my head down, improved my knowledge and hen when the job could offer me no more, I moved. Due to the experience I know have a job with lovely people and am loving it. Rise above and you will score. My regards and best wishes with your future. Sara xxx

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