i hate my mum
most would say that i am an average teen in an average family, well thats what it looks like. the thing is, i absolutely despise my mum, i actually feel physically sick when she is near me bcs i can't stand her. she is someone who thinks she is better than she is, and she has to be right always other wise she gets angry. She gets angry about a lot of stupid things and she is always telling me what a horrible child i am and how she hates me. she is a hypercrit as well! i am so upset and its really stressful at the mo with my GCSE's coming up, shes just making me more stressed. she just doesn't seem to realise that i'm growing up and that she has to stop being overprotective and basically just mean. she is such a horrible mum and its got to a point where i want to move out and live by myself because she causes arguments between the rest of us (me, dad and sister) and then blames us for stupid things, i don't know how my dad stands it. i hate my mum so much and i feel trapped and alone. i'm too embarassed to talk to my friends, i can't talk to my dad cs he will take her side and my sister and i do not get on. i just need to write this otherwise i'll bottle it up and get ill and idont want to give her the saticfaction!!!
Story shared: 25/04/2007 17:36:47
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she herts me and lies shes a cow she wont let me live with my dad i hate hate hate her plz help me i want to live with him but i cant i am soooo upset i feel soooooooo ill help me :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Call 0800 1111(childline)
Lock youself in your room and do your own thing
If your mum makes a nasty comment just say 'yes' or 'yeah i know'!
xxxxxx
When I look back there are things I could have done to make life easier for myself at the time when I had to live with her. Firstly obvious things like go out as much as possilbe, join loads of clubs, activities, evening classes, sports whatever so you are out the house as much as possible doing cool stuff. Secondly try to remain as calm as possible, not to react to her nastiness, be the adult. Thirdly try to work out if there are any things that make her act any better, treat it like an experiment. Lastly try and find a surrogate mum - hard to do obviously - but could be a friends mum, autie or failing that a counsellor. It makes a big difference. If all else fails think of anywhere else you might be able to live-nans, dads, friends etc. Also if you are over about 12 and have somewhere else to stay, just keep going there.
You have to look after yourself cos the person who is supposed to be looking after you aint doing a very good job of it. Good luck!
One thing that happens at 12 years old is that our bodies change, we can see that. The other thing that happens is that our bodies start pumping wild and unregulated amounts of chemicals called hormones into our bodies. These make us think in a wild way, we don't even know what is happening, we just feel mad, frustrated and helpless and our emotional responses swing from one second to the next.
There is nothing that any of us can do about it, except try and learn not to act on impulse. Never make a decision 'now', make it in an hour, or tomorrow. Yes, that helpless feeling will make us feel depressed but it passes. Eventually. The only advice that I can offer to anyone in this situation is to concentrate like hell on your schoolwork. It might not sound like fun, but working your way through 5 years now will both keep your mind focused, and at the end of it you will have better qualifications than you would otherwise have had, and that means a better job, more money, independence...and that means that you can go and live somewhere else if you want to. If you don't put the work in now, you are going to be stuck where you are for a very long time. So avoid the bad guys, don't get pregnant, or get anyone else pregnant, ignore the drugs and the gangs,don't let anyone stand in your way, know your own mind, know what you want, and go for it.
So, I know how you feel. I also understand why she makes you feel sick, i feel sick when I'm around my mum!
sick shites
My mum doesn't let me go out much, hardly ever. Infact i went out with my friends only twice and that was when my friends mum was there! because i am not allowed to go out, i go on msn and chat to my friends from there but now my mum is going to take that away from me as well, so no more msn! i want some more freedom, and i tell her that if you treat me like im 16 years old then why cant i get the freedom of a 16 year old? she just laughs and says im too small! how predictable eh?
I have 2 sisters and they are both smaller than me. most of the time they drive me crazy, and i feel like dying because my mum never sees things from my point of view. the other times i just stay up in my room and cry until my eyes are so red that i can hardly see...
i have been depressed since march 2007, and thats when my birthday is, so back then i was hoping things would go up and i would be happier when it was my birthday, but they didnt even do anything, nothing! i was so upset that day that i cried, and ever since then i am depressed. i go to year 8 and at the moment i am having my halfterm tests. the school i go to gives me a lot of homework but now i just don't do any of it. i am trully not boasting but i am the most intelligent person in my class, my marks are the highest and everyone thinks im happy, which is completely th opposite of how i am feeling. My mum always forces me to do things and never leaves me alone! My dad goes to work in the weekdays but when he comes back on the weekend he also pressures me to do more and extra work. i want to become a doctor and help people when i grow up, but im scared that at the rate im going i may not be very successful, so my life would be ruined.
I feel like dying and most of the time i want to self harm myself. I have friends who self harm themselves and they have only minor problems, and when i see what they do to themselves i cry... i told one of them some of my problems and we cried together, and she asked me how i could stand it. i said i couldnt, i said that i just bottle it up and try very hard to make the people around me not notice how im feeling, because i am ashamed...
i cannot say that i understand everyone here, but i know how it feels to be isolated and blocked up, like you cant breathe and you just want to die... sorry if this was a bit long and i hope that all of you would become successful and independant, and you should fight for your rights. dont be scared to do so, you have the law behind you and NEVER be afraid to call people like Childline : 0800 11 11
try it, it will help =)
(Im 20 and I still haven't managed to get away from her and her housearrest, but maybe one day I'll get out)
hardly ever see my mates. and then she wonders why im never going out.
im 15 and cannot w8 2 move out, 1st chance i get im going. She shouts at me calls me explicit names and degrades me and my personality.
but wen i do tel her stuff she gos and tells all her friends, and wen i see then they always bring it up and it embarasess me. i cannot trust her anymore, let alone love. i know i should cos seh looked after me and all wen i was little.... so i do feel bad.
But i just cant bring myself like her. we always fight and then she gos and phones up my dad and tells him.... so hes on her side. he never listens to me or my side...
x
sit down and talk with them (no perant likes being told that they are crap )
go out more - if you are not allowed, tell your perants that you are going to an after school club- hanging out with friends i heard :P they will buy that especially if they are pushing you to do school work.
If shes ignoring you, then just tell someone else...
If your mum has a mother in law, then tell her, its like an unspoken rivalry, infact tell most people =), chances are, that someone will speak up to her, and she will fee stupid and small, ...
If your mum is going behind your back and tattil tailing on your to your Dad or the such, then get to him first, tell him on the phone, i tend to find people are more understanding on the phone (Y)
If people dont beleive what you are going through (grandperants, Dads) make recordings on phones or something, they will have no choice but to beleive you then,
If you really hate your mum you might want to get revenge... ;)
cut off the phone when ses speaking to someone.. worms in the bed. Thing is she will probably smack you, smack her back or say something like, was that sposed to hurt, maybe cry run out the house tell the neighbours,
if you dont want to tell your mum that shes a frigin idiot to her face, then write a letter. Another thing you could do, is tell your mums friends about the whole shindig, ORRR tell them about how she masurbates, peed herself last night, used to be a pole dancer, brings lesbian partners back to the house, and all that jazz :D ,
Now about you...
Youve got to find something that you enjoy, maybe have a run jog or walk or some sort of excercise (it makes you happy.. it ACTUALLY does)
Find a comeadian you like Lee Evans or someone watch him on youtube (.com) maybe Peter Kay ... they will make you happy.. =D Join a club, Boxing maybe to help you take your anger out (pretend the punchbag is your mum) :P
Things can only get better... Silver lining to every cloud - find that one person who you can really talk to.
My MSN is Lizzie._Bean and then this bit @hotmail.com if you want any more advice XD
Best wishes, i hope this helped =) xx
PEOPLE ARE DYING ALL OVER THE WORLD, DON'T MAKE OUT YOUR LIFE IS SO TERRIBLE. AHH DICKS LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO TOPP THEMSELVES
PEOPLE ARE DYING ALL OVER THE WORLD, DON'T MAKE OUT YOUR LIFE IS SO TERRIBLE. AHH DICKS LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO TOPP THEMSELVES"
Do u know what this site is for? Its for people to let off steam and tell somebody who they don't know, who are usually a bit more understanding, how they really feel. Not for silly little p***ks like you to come on and say things like that, we all know that there are far worse things going on in the world but everybody has hardships in their lives, however trivial they may seem to you, so what gives you the right to make people feel guilty about talking about things that they feel down about. Which is what this site is for, if you don't like people indulging in their deepest feelings then don't come on sites like this.
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Take Care
i wanna smack that cunt
i wanna smack that cunt
i wanna smack that cunt
i wanna smack that cunt
i wanna smack that cunt
i wanna smack that cunt
I only get a piece of bread and a baby bowl of soup...
i just sneaked my Laptop from my CARERS and hve wrote this message
if i get caught i will get locked in the fridge again.... NOOOO IT'S NOT A JOKE THEY DO DO IT TO ME BECAUSE I HAD IT DONE 2 WEEKS AGO FOR GOING OUT AT BREAK FROM SKOOL
It's freezing and you should see my SCAR on my side where my man carer Shaun shagged me and burnt me with a lighter coz i wriggled trying to escape
Sorry this is so LONG bye xx
i mean i say stop she says its my fault
sumtimes she acts nice but i know its an act
y cant she jus ignore me and let me go
damn my life is shit
Even if she still ballocks you, just wait it out. I found my mum treated me less like a kid and more like an adult as time went on, and now we're fine. Even if she's wrong about somthing and can't admit it (mum's are dappy cows) just go with it, and avoid bitching at your mum when she comes in from work AT ALL COSTS. Last thing she wants to hear after a shitty day at the office is "you put my clothes in the wrong draw, whens dinner, can you drive me to tescos, are those wrinkles?" BLAH BLAH BLAH
Follow dis guide, and housetrain that BITCH
But she wont even listen to me when i try and say anything. evewn if it's just like 'will i have time to get a showeer after school before we go out?' she'll ignore my and get really angry for no reason
to switch chanels she says keep this on for your brother then i say noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
she sends me to my room
mean i ask her to do my hair she dose it perfect but after puts her hand all over it and rewends it and she dont even notice huhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i hate her
shes dirty and dont wash she smells of fish and alw8s talks about food !
yes shees obese ! rikki bbe i luvv uu x-x-x-
Keep up the good work!
xxxxx
i dont know like pepole die every day why dont they die !!!!!! i bet thier bitches and witches
just remember
be grateful you have a mum.
i just had a super fall out with my mum and shit reliazing shes a wee fucking grass but hey thats mums im grateful i have a mum and i love her but right now i really cant be arsed with ehr or ne1 in my family
jsu sayin it happens to all of us
Happy Killing :D
if your mum was really THAT bad you wouldnt be telling everyone like this and im sure they ent..ring the police if theyre abusing u or something REALLY bad.
theres ppl who have 20x worse lifes than you so if ur makin it up or exagerating ur all sick cunts.
if they just yell at you or something WAKE UP basically every mum does that.
and ppl who told to go kill their mum..ur scum, go kill URSELF.
and every 1s got cancer
pink bald cancer hed
shame if yhoo have nits
DOUBLE CHIN
BIG EARS
NIT
what shid ahh doo :(
or if not then get someone else to tlk to
xx
AND STOP WHINIG AND LUKI LILLY LADY U SHUT THE FUK UP U DIRTY SKET" UR UGLII AND IM PRETTY YH X IM THE PRETTIEST GURLL IN DA WORLDD COZ IM SXC AND LOVE PINK MORE DAN YHOO !!!!! [THE COLOUR] IF U WANT ME I LIVE IN ENGLAND """"""""""""""""
i wish either she or me is DEAD
i am 11, in yr5,and go to carlton publice school
i go home, study( mum force me 2) until dinna
im the smartest in the school and it is EMBARASSING
i would rather be dum really
i dont have any games
no Nintendo DS, no PC, no WII, no nothing
except for a stupid so-called mum
sorry 4 it being 2 long
if u wanna contact me, shezaTWOTHREETWOATgmailDOTcom
dnt just keep it in xx
okaii there u goo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! let it out !!!!
haappyy killing =] xxxxxxxxx
you tammy. what is this:'i hate my mum cause she wil not let me to have my hair done'.Are you stupid??? This is not a reason to hate your mum.
I totally agree you Rocky.
BE GRATEFUL YOU HAVE A MUM.
When you all came in this world the first word you said was "MUM" so this means that mum is the best and the most precious thing in this world. Think about this.......
LOVE FROM EMMA XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX TO MY PUPII FRIENDS XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
sometimes she lyk jkjk really mean 2 me
but all de other times shes really nice n stuff
u should try n talk 2 ur mum
dats wat i did coz b4 i didnt haf such a good relationship wif her
i hate them so mutch Parents should die i think not to be too mean
She ignores me and only cares about her stupid ugly husband I FUCKING HATE MY LIFE !!!!!!!! ruined all because of her
Nicky
i hate her
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I FUKN HATE MY MUM she is such a bitch.
i can see y she and my dad is divorced.
she is always on evryone elses side and she always makes me do fukn everything.
she thinks she knows evrything and if u prove her wrong she gets mad.
she always talks to me in a bad tone.
gt gcses in a couple of weeks, and have an absolute bitch oif a mum. shes way to overprotective and has to dominate my life in every way and really needs to realise im not her little boy anymore.
bt think of it like this her life is ending and ures hasnt even begun. shes like 40 rite and u must be about 16
my dad hes just a fucking mental prick. he takes everything to fucking far.
my mum, shes a fucking hypocrit to. she doesn't understand how annoying the fat bitch is. i will kill them one day, brutally and slowly.
as i recall it was a horror film,.,,
lmao ,,, shut up u lezbainoos miss bruce,, miss clown face hopkins ,, sara rimmer has got small eyes,, zoe buglass has small head,,
she gave me a horrible name
i hardly get attention my sister does [younger] she thinks i lie all the time.
i know the others are worse but im living or think im living....
I HATE DAD AND MY MUM MY MUM TELL ME OFF WHEN I PLAY
WITH MY SISTER
MY DAD PISH ME WHEN I TUTCH HIS TOP HIS PISH ME
By Emily
But Sometimes she really hurts me (in the inside)
She skits me alot, And has moaning streaks,
My mums never, EVER hit me before but once i got so scared i locket myself in my room.
And My mums just got a boyfriend and she calls me selfish for everythink i do
And i not
I dont wanna grow up to be like her
Shes a Mean, Selfish, Ugly Mother.
Can't Wait to move out when i'm older.
:) x
FUCK XIAJDFCVJSNFVJHUEWHFU
FUCK XIAJDFCVJSNFVJHUEWHFU
its either her or me ! one of us has to go . ive got to the point we're i cant stand living anymore.
im also comming up to my GCSE exams and she is stressing me out so much it's stupid..i realy thinking im going to end up running away or arguing with her that bad she will kick me out! but now to some my mum up in a short story
"mum is a fucking right bitch that needs to take a realy,realy long walk off of a realy,realy short pier!"
:)
HOPE I STAND ALIVE!:D
she takes all my nintendo games and brakes them, she 6 years old! I WISH IM SISTER DIED I DONT EVEN CARE WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HER I HATE HER SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH SHES THE MOS ANNOYING SISTER IN THE WHOLE GALECSY! BUT SOME TIMES I LIKE HER (BUT NOT LOVE) WELL SOME TIMES I love HER BUT SHES SO ANNOYING PLEASE AWNSER
your mum is well nice what are you on about?
you said to me its only cos she touches your arsehole & calls you a knobjockey.
Nigh on oliver, relax a bit & be grateful
could be worse, my mum treads on me
& lets you nigh with seb at school
& lets you frequency visit daddio
& lets you wear trainers & gola bags
& lets you talk to JB (im sooo jealous!!)
& lets you donate nigh to the 'art of science'
& lets you have the 'nesquik f***ing bunny' cereal cars
grrr i wish
& lets you nigh with seb at school
& lets you frequency visit daddio
& lets you wear trainers & gola bags
& lets you talk to JB (im sooo jealous!!)
& lets you donate nigh to the 'art of science'
& lets you have the 'nesquik f***ing bunny' cereal cars
grrr i wish
me & jj really would appreciate it if you'd stop jumping on us & hugging us & saying our initials in a really strange artificial voice. ('hey jj')
it's very irrating & my mother is starting to getting pissy about it x
if it wasn't for her, then you really would be in the shit!
ARMY!!
I hope this racism and discrimnation against the minority of Puffin broadbanders ends soon! DISRACEFUL! I hope all of you with problems find a solution though. May the Bal be with you!
i hate my mother
i hate gcse's completely agree with u
nd i wish i could die to c my dad
nd i cry nd pray to die evry night ,i just stay in my room to keep out her way
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i have a dad alot like this, im stuck with him tbh because my mother died 8 weeks ago. he is the only one i can turn to and he sounds exactly like your mother. I know how hard it is to change some one its impossible with people like that, lets just hope you do well in ure gcses and manage to do well in life show her you an amazing person.
With problems in you life you get stronger
it will only make u strong it wont break you
simply untrue,
mine is a FUKING BITCH, will not give me space and be a voice nading in my ear, i hea more complaints about me than conversation from her. when she drinks you can see that she likes geing horrible towards me. but love aswell as hate is common. i love her but hate her sometimes. bitch lol
everyday we get into an argument she loves my syblings and hates me i am fed up with her and wish i had a new mum she is the last one i would choose does anyone else feel like i always do?
my mum hates me, she even tells me. i have 2 brothers and she is always taking their side. she always tells me dont answer me back but i jus cant be like my brothers hu jus sit down and accept it, i try my best to be good for her cos i know her life aint easy either and she always says to us, i dont want u lot to be treated like i was but she is always either hitting me, swering at me or wishing that i wasnt born.
on her birthday i spend loads of money to buy her good jewwelry and expensive chocolates and buy the biggest cards i can get and she jus still gives me shit.
she is one of those mothers hu thinks she is always right, even though deep down she knows she is rong she still argues.
like i was saying im 15 and she still doesnt even let me have a mobile ( i told her ill pay for it and every time i top up) she still doesnt.
she let my small brother have a mobile hu is 13
wen i say hes got one why cant i have 1 she jus slaps me and says dont argue with me i sed ur not having one so ur not.
she doesnt even let me go outside after 9pm ---the area i live in is harmless-- a full row of takeaways in front of my house that close at 12pm the earliest
even tho its a weekend she says i cant go out after nine
btw im a muslim
my dad is ok-he jus listens to watever she says.
im doing my gcse\'s and im alreddy stressed out but she jus doesnt stop giving me sht
cos i was stressed i started smoking and now i cant stop ---she doesnt know that i smoke, she warned me wat wud happen if i did--i cant even bring myself to say it.
ive tryed talking to her she doesnt listen
i got no where to go if i run away and i feel sorry for my dad then-i dont want to stress him out.
i got no-one to confide in-----i put a brave face on in skool cos im embarrased, i dont tell my friends anything about my life at home-i jus dont like to talk about it
i seriously wanted to kill myself or her--but i culdn\'t bring myself to do it and it is not allowed in our religion to kill others or kill ur self.
ive even tryed the whole religion thing-----to be a good person and that and follow religion properly but it dont work so can somebody please help me or give me advice.
im not going to visit this site again so please somebody add me if they in same situation as me or whatever:
Unknown_94 "at" hotmail.co.uk
i know how it is i hate my mum so much
once she found a txt on mi fone from my bf and she freeked even tho im 14
shes comstantly saying in a slapper and a slag and a horrible daughter
but you must stand up for yourself,, your mum cant hurt you if you dont let her
iiloveyhoo.....x
she always makes fun out of me
and she says mean thigs bout me
i hate her so badly
i hate her!
urgh
she pisses me off
and blames me for everything
she is like a mirror image of what you people are describing and reading this means im not alone, but it does not help because i stilll dont have anyone to talk to :(
she is like a mirror image of what you people are describing and reading this means im not alone, but it does not help because i stilll dont have anyone to talk to :(
Theres a TON more that i want to write but a stupid error thing keeps coming up. basically my mother is a selfish lazy lieing person whom i deteste.
i just had a dunnowhatthehellisgoingon argument with my mum exactly because she thinks is so right and never listens to other people. shes having a terrible relationship with my dad too.
i feel you man.
theres really nth we can do but to really forgive her.
yeah. bleak one.
I am only 11 years old and it is my summer hoildays and me and my mum are watching tv and i am flicking through the channels when suddenly she has a outbust and said to me you are a horrible girl and i want your brother to stay with me but i hate you and i cant wait for you to go back to school. I am pissed off.
Just think i am only 11 and i really want to run away chood i, i really dont know
i have planned to move out befor the new year as i am only 16 i gont know how she is going to react and to make it worse i need to tell her i am having a baby. wish me luck anyways good luck to you all out there with your problems.
PEOPLE ARE DYING ALL OVER THE WORLD, DON'T MAKE OUT YOUR LIFE IS SO TERRIBLE. AHH DICKS LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO TOPP THEMSELVES"
-first of all the person that wrote this- you complete and utter twat, we are not ignorant people who have no idea about poverty and stuff, we are people who have found a place to talk about our shitty mums with people who think the same.
my mum hates me i dont know why but she actually hates me. i understand what you are all describing. I feel genuine pain when i think about my mum, i feel sick when i'm around her, sometimes feel like killing her, and killing myself because of her- that will show her, but she and I both know I wont do that because I won't waste my life because of some twat. But then deep down underneath all the hatred I do actually know I have some love for my mum and that makes it hurt even more because I want her to love me I dont understand how I can. She prefers my sister, always has and my sister can make up any bollocks to her about me and she will believe it and then go twist stuff around and tell my dad so he hates me too and my sister uses it against me cus she knows my mum will believe anything she says. I have tried ringing childline but I haven't got through- it just keeps ringing.
Also does any one know if parents hitting their kids when their frustrated is actually illegal or not?
Sorry about the long post, Its just once I got going it all came flowing out. I cant put up with her shit anymore, but what can we do? at my age I need her to give me money and lifts places and whatever so she's still in control of me. I HATE HER.
Since now everything was just going like normal, but because im so fed up with my life iv stopped careing about it, iv been to councling, but they really dident help, My brother ( specal needs ) has been just making my life hell, he can get away with almost murder, he kisses up to the teachers at school, infact one teacher stopped me in the corridoor and shouted at me saying give my borther a break heys a good lad, and i lost it with that teacher, i totally flipped and i ended up swearing and shouting at her and walking of, why does she have to interfear in my life ????
Latley heys started getting away with stuff, he comes into my room, and just hits me... and walks out, my mum belives me about all this but the only problem is he doesent live with us, he lives miles away =/ and heys the only one who belives me, I wish i could go and stay with him but my mum never wants me to go to his house, as he is living with her ex best friend.... yeah..
But its been like this for abit now and i hate it, Its not a really bad problem, infact other people have worse problems, but i just wish i could move away, and iv made a promise to my mum, that if this keeps carring on i will run away, but she doesent lisson, =/
I just wish she stopped thinking about my brother and thought about us all, she needs to change her life and make it better, otherwise im affrade when i grow older i wont want anything to do with her,
We can have some laughs and she buys me things... but, its hard.
xx
and no we arent joking
I HATE MY MUM
after this i go upstairs and maybe go on facebook or msn. just chill basically. about 40 minutes later, my mum comes in and i go downstairs to ask her how her day has been, and she snaps and shouts at me. without fail, everytime.
i understand that sometimes my bedroom is a mess, but other times it is absolutely spotless and even when i tidy my bedroom, do lots of chores, etc etc, she still finds something not right with what i've done. nothing is good enough for her and i can honestly say i am beginning to hate her.
my partner and i are very much in love, and she does all she can to help and support me, but as she does not live with me, she does not understand how bad my mum can get.
i know my mum has issues too with work and stuff, but she never has a nice thing to say to me, only critisism, i dont think she loves me anymore.
she treats my little brother like a prince, but he is not a very nice boy. she says he is the only one apart from her who does housework, when this is not true, he sits on his xbox all day and i get the blame for the house sometimes being untidy.
she frequently hits me, tells me to get out of her house, calls me a silly little bitch, a selfish cow, etc etc, when im really not. im a very loving and caring person and i hope nobody has to admit that they no longer love their mum.
2 years ago i had my mum's name tatooed on myself, as a sign of love and respect, but all that has just gone out the window now and i wish that i didnt live here.
i am moving out in 6 months, as i have a place at the british racing school, but i dont know if i can stand 6 more months with her.
she is a nightmare and i cant deal with the physical or emotional abuse anymore.
i hope you all work it out with your mum though, nobody should feel helpless like i do, or have nobody else to go to like me.
love to all xxxx
its just like i hate my parents soo much n they dont see wat we ever goo through with friendship n at home life is hardd
if i could i would runaway and never come back but i though and it just like were would i go. i find it soo hard tto tell anything to my mates cause they woould think im just mad!!
I wish i could hav a new lifee
go on the comptuer. And she go's in a huff all the time
My mums like the same as that she horrible!
move out as soon as your 16 and never ever return
pfftt!!
you need to live a little and grow up..
just think if your mum didnt care you wouldnt be here today!!
wanker!!!!
wagwarnn=]
Your mum means the world to you!!
She made you to be alive rite now you spitefull bitch!!
Eaaaaaziii!! :)
hahahahaha grow uppp muglipsss
i wish you all died you nasty bastardssssssss!!!
wastegashhhh
loveyouu
yous get a life fs.
not everyone good mums, oh your mum gave you life blah blah blah.
fuking stupid cows so fuck your mums just a person sake same as you theres no need for her thinking she is better!!
stupid cows:D go jump of a bridge ya pair of ugly bastards:L:L:L.
eww:-&
errr go have a bath you sweaty bitch
how do you know where ugly for all you know we could be top models
come back when you have found a brigde and ile push you off the bastard thing!!!
immature slag!!!!!
wagwarn!!!
go fuck your self!!!
you are all sad people saying you hate your mum!!
id laugh if your mum turned round and said i hate you btw forgot to tell you
YOU WAS A MISTAKE!!!!!!
SUCK AHT LAVV!!
And were uglyy!! :L:L Dont mek me laff!!
Youu look like shreks fuckin wife darlinnn!!
Go jump of a bridge :L I will do so dont have to listen to u anymore!
or even better
Why dont uu just die!!
And melissaa!! :L:L:L
Wereeee siiiiiiiick :)
:)
sag fookersssss!!
i was ment to go shoppin with my mum n we dint go becoz her mate dint wanna go. int
You can do it, you can be whatever you want go wherever you want, buy, see, live, experience and enjoy life and ALL it takes is work. AND I PROMISE YOU ALSO THAT ALL THE FEELINGS OF " I CANT BE BOTHERED" ARE WORTH IT!!!!! So don't give up!!! if this helps just one person it would make my bloody year.
You can do it, you can be whatever you want go wherever you want, buy, see, live, experience and enjoy life and ALL it takes is work. AND I PROMISE YOU ALSO THAT ALL THE FEELINGS OF " I CANT BE BOTHERED" ARE WORTH IT!!!!! So don't give up!!! if this helps just one person it would make my bloody year.
Hope your relationship strenthens soon.
- P.J
I hope all your situations improve...the hardest thing in the world is problems with family...remember to use these problems as a catalyst for doing the best in the life, throw yourself into your work or whatever..hope things get better for us all. God Bless xxxx
when she gets really angry she shouts a lot and hits me really hard i am 12 yrs old and shouldnt be going thrugh this
my mum always picks on me and calls me names, also she always says she hates me i cant talk to my mum about how i feel because she will get annoyed and hit me and when she hits me i is not 1 slap it is about 20 punches they hurt so much what sould i do
she ripped my sisters top up once just because she didn't lend her money.
I need help please im going crazy.
she picks fights ovaa any stupid thing and one day i swear im gonaa kill her!!
i get on with my dad most of that time and nevaa with my sister.
i cant talk to any one about it either.
it makes me so i mad i could just spit!!
Really mums will be mums and there job is too embarrase youu :)
butt mums shouldent hate you thats just out of order im sooooo sorry abouut that and once i actually moved out coz my mum paisses me right off :@:@:@ urghh i hate her soooooooo muchh :@:@ she says to me that everything i say is a liee:@:@:@
SHE IS JUST AS BAD!!!
SHE IS THE REASON MY BF BROKE UP WITH ME
AND MY DAD IS LIKE ON HER SIDE!!!!
MY LIFE GETS WORSE AND WORSE
I HAVE A X-BOYFRIEND OK.
I LIKE YOU A LITTLE BIT OK.
i'm really sad i want to move in with my aunty in germany but i'm only twelve.
i came up here cause me and my mum had an argurment and i put in google i hate my mum but if you think about never having ur mum in this world it make you feel quite empty but for now beucause of this faze u have got be selfish as hell and fight for yourself to make sure you get a better future and it doesnt make you a bitter person just fight so you can get through this because even though it doesnt seem like it it will all be fine just keep eing strong!
I HATE HER!
xx
my dad wanted to take to a shrink last year and she said that i was just looking for atention and that i was trying to imitate mo EMO friends
last year my uncle melested me and she said that the right thing to do was to act like if nothing happened and stay away from him she even said that i should licture him and try to remind him that god is watching us , i guess i'm i'm not good enough for her to fight for me or to get mad for me , i hate her so much , i feel sick to my stomach , and i detest my self for being a part of her
some of you say my mum may love me still but she doesnt:@
i go to hug her - she doesnt hug me bak , i havnt had a hug off my mum for months
i cnt go on this way anymore
:'(
and after all thoughs comments i have read well u may need 2 talk xxxxxxx
all my love
aviana
WHAT THAAA FUCK!!
THAT DUNT MEK SENSE YOU NOBJOCKEY!!!!!!
all my love
aviana
and swears at me
i no exactly what you feel like i have no advice just that im in exactly the same position im 15 but in july when i turn 16 im leaving and moving into a flat,
just too let you know you are able to do this when you are 16....
good luck babe stay strongg =)
x
I LOVE MY MUM
and tbf i found it rather sad,
hope thinks am better now tho :)
i hate my mum all over gous my borth bit me she sent my to boring school no
OR EVEN BETTER CALL CHILDLINE 0800 11 11
i h8 hr!
xxx
my mum puts me down all the time,and its obvios that she loves my older sister more then me. she shout at me all the time for no reason and im not allowed to go out or have my friends round. once she said "your never having your friends round ever again" so i said ive never had my friends round, so she smacked me for talking back at her.
i know it doesnt sound that bad, but sometimes im so depressed i wish i was never born.
p.s. once she told me i was a mistake.
I hate her near me i wanna beat her to death but cant because shes FEMALE and the shitty law says i cant hit a woman.
SHAME >:(
I hate her near me i wanna beat her to death but cant because shes FEMALE and the shitty law says i cant hit a woman.
SHAME >:(
-Kate
Unloved, it sounds like your mother is verbally abusing you. Please tell someone about this- a teacher, a counsellor or therapist.
but this time i want to to something like get fostered is it good to thuo???
i also want to move out, i cant stand her. i get so annoyed and pissed off at her that i end up taking it out on others. she made me and my best friend fall out (BIG TIME), cos i had a party and she found out and started shouting at her. BITCH!
I hate her soo much!! She thinks she's better than every one while she's probably the wrose person on earth
I just can't stand sitting beside her
She knows that I hate her because I told her that to her face
and when I did she told me "Like I ever loved you"
and whenever I wanna do something , she moves closer to me to see what I'm doing ! and I know she's my motherr but still she doesnt have to know EVERYTHING I do.
And when she says no about something , I wouldn't care
I'd still do it anyway
Im her daughter and she doesnt trust me , EVEN WHEN I TELL THE TRUTH
if sometimes she says no when i tell her im going out with my frnds
it's either because she doesnt trust me
or because she doesnt feel like dropping me off somewhere
I TRUEELYY HATE HER
She only cares about herself
If she was planning on being the worst mom ever
she shouldn't have gave birth from the first place
She just loves my big brother , even my cousines know that. They are always telling me "Aren't you jealous of your brother?"
I'm not jealous I love my brother but she's just a bitch for that!!
I'm even embarresses by her. I usually don't invite my friends over just so they wont have to meet her.
She's gonna regret doing that to me someday
My brother started working so he moved to another country , my sister will graduate from college this summer ...After that she'll probably get married.
When they're all gone , she's gonna need me , but i can't just forgive and forget...She and my dad once split , and now i know why!! She's a terrible mom.I'm just sorry for my dad.they are now back together
They shouldn't have because she always judge him and he desrves better than that. Our family deserve better than that.
Writing this about her makes me feel soo good
hate her
I just wanted to introduce myself to everyone!
Can't wait to get to know you all better!
-Marshall
Thanks again!
shes angry when she is around me it is not fair
i feel sometimes i wangt her to die :S
im scared of her aswell seh mean and evil
i have teied to runa awya buit alot of the time not had niogu courage kwam ?
but aww well maybe oneday my dreans wil coem true ?
i think it mght be because he was in the back yard when i gave it to him and then my mum came out and said 'are you fucking stupid, when your outside you dont give a kid a balloon' so i thought 'fair enough' then i went inside with the balloon and he followed me and then he fucking screamed for the balloon ''/
i gave it to him and then he let go of it and it flew out side. oh my fukinn god i could kill her she fucking chased me to my room and pushed me against the wallthen she wacked me across the head. im surprised i havent got brain damage. and then she called me a pathetic no good useless idiot who doesnt think abot things befor i do them, WELL, FOR YOUR INFO, MUMMY, I BROUGHT THE BALLOON INSIDE SO IT WOULD NOT FLY AWAY, YOU DICKHEAD. JUST BECAUSE HE LET GO ITS NOT MY FUCKING FAULT!!! arg. either she goes or i go.
i hate her. whats the point in having mums anyway when all they do is yell at you for stupid reasons.
just registered and put on my todo list
hopefully this is just what im looking for looks like i have a lot to read.
An i was likke WTF i see him at skl yuu gonna baned me frm goin skl ..
I WANT MY DAD ..
i am very upset that you all hate your mum i am really sad about this story on here its this one =my mum likes my 11 year old sister more because shes got braces and there not eaven proper wons the other day she called me fat and ugly so i said least i ant got braces so my mum hit me so hard i couldnt feel the place she hit me i started to cry then she coverd up my nose and mouth so i couldnt breath and im a 9 year old girl with a broken arm.and i get upset about this story bcuz im nine years old too and my mum i have a little brother whos 5 and my mum when he went to nursrey my mum would get him toys and clothes she wouldnt get me ANYTHING and these days its got worse bcuz my little brother had six teeth out so he had to be off school otherwise his gums might bleed soo he got the week off and he came home from toys rus and he had all these toys i said mum weres my stuff then mum she said i bloody didnt get you nothing i am haveing big roplems at the moment bcuz my nan died of cancer and i used to sleep there everyday to get away from my mum xxxlove you all
Im new here . I want to say hello for everyone.
G'night
thanks for sharing this!
i'm getting so sick
she thinks i'm selfish, i am holding my self back from having fun so i can help her with money when she needs it.
i am such a nice person. i would give my life for some one i dont even know.
she is trying to breake me down. but hell no. that's not going to happen. i will not give up with out a fight!!!!!!!
Maybee You Need To Look At The Posotive Things As Well Likee... At Least She Went Thrue AllThat Pain To Give Birth To Youu And Bring You In To The World.. :) xxxx""""
She even told me i was an accident. she tries turning me against my dad, who is adaquet at least of times, just because he doesn't phone to see how i am. If she actually knew me she'd know i Hate phone calls jsut as much as i hate her >:(
I HOPE YOU DIE MOTHER.
my dad died so he cant do anything about it some1 please HELP
p.s i bet she never ment to hurt u feelings ive been there now i have no problems with her
so think twice she thinks everything she says is right and every thing i do is wrong she for no reason she takes off my pocket money i think she's giving me pocket money because she going to always going to take away my pocket money she promises me stuff but then she says tommorow every day the only time she kept her promise is when she took me to watch street dance
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
my mum actually tells me to phone up childline,
threatenes me to pack my suitcase.
im 11 and she calls me a bitch and a cow.
my mums pregnant with a boy,
iloveherr,
but i hate her!
that baby boy
MY BROTHER!
SHE DONT DESERVE THAT BABY!
SHES HELLA LOT OF CRAZY!
funnily enough, she likes me and i'm her favourite out of me+my sis. i can't stand it. i'm only nice to her if i want money or something. she overreacts to anything. e.g, "Do the dishes" "I have homework" "fine. why don't i just die?you, and your dad and sister can kill me. wouldn't that be nice."
this is actually a real eg.!!
she is not horrible all the time but when she's nice, she's so frickin annoying. i'll be watchin tv and she'll be talking about some crap and even when the volumes on bloody 1000, she dont get the msg and when i tell her 2 stop talking, she gives me the silent treatment YET when i so much as open a door when she's watching tv, she'll have a go at me.WTF!!!! she spends so much money as well yet when we ask for some to buy stuff, she's like "NO. spend your own."(most o the time) e.g, "We are really tight on cash.i just need to pick up some food." *2 hrs later* "look at all this stuff i bought...."
she's a vindictive, self-centred, uptight, passive-agressive, stubborn, lazy, overreacting, harsh little bitch!!!!
I WOULD ACTUALLY LOVE IT IF SHE DIED.I'M NOT EVEN JOKING! I KNOW ITS A RLY BAD THING 2 SAY BUT I'M BEING HONEST. LIFE WOULD BE SO MUCH EASIER IF SHE WASN'T IN IT!!!!!
she gates me angry
ihate her
my mum dosent no this but shes 1 of the reasons im going to bording school!
I hate her.
She is so sefish and she also abuses me.
She swears, she shouts but worst of all she hits me!
She makes me feel like I want to run away or have completly different mum.
she beats me
she punches me
she throws me to the floor and stands on me
she steals money from me
she threatens to kill me
she always stands up for my little sister and older brother but not me and my older sister
she has done all of the above to my oldr sister too
i want to go live with my dad but she wont let me
i want to kill her so much, its not like anyones going to miss her its not like she has friends
i have resentment towards her
shes a bitch
i wish she would die
enough said
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