i hate my mum

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#1 by millsy on 30/04/2007 15:42:46 (id-550).
hi there. Just read your story and i understand how you feel. Im not saying that my advice is the best advice because i don't know your mum or you enough. What id suggest is to sit your mum down where it can just be the two of you and say what you're feeling,straight out. There will be tears, maybe a a bit of anger but you have to tell your mum how she is making you feel. I know you feel like you hate her and beleive me i have been there! but at the end of the day she is your mum and she loves you even though she doesn't always show it.Id tell your friends, don't feel embarassed, thats what they're there for. And don't worry too much about your GCSE'S, I managed to pass mine and i was suffering from depression and having a crap time with my mum too but i did it. Just be brave and face the problem, it's all you need to do. Hope everything goes ok for you xx

#2 by elley dymond on 18/09/2007 20:14:30 (id-632).
i hate my mum she was 2 timing my dad and sed she wernt
she herts me and lies shes a cow she wont let me live with my dad i hate hate hate her plz help me i want to live with him but i cant i am soooo upset i feel soooooooo ill help me :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

#3 by elley dymond on 18/09/2007 20:17:43 (id-633).
i sat down with my mum the other day and told her thoe and she nearly killed me i mean come on im 11 and my lil sis is 7 i mean we shouldn't be goin through this:(

#4 by jules on 26/09/2007 21:59:47 (id-643).
I read this story and it actually reads like my life. I'm coming up to my gcse's and when i tell my friends that i hate my mum, there like "yeah same", but I say "no, I mean, i actually hate her, I do not love her, I have told her this and she has told me that she has hated me since I was three" they don't understand. i know how you feel - isolated, alone, abnormal. Its how i felt until i realised that there were other people like me who were in this position. I completely understand what you mean about feeling physically sick when your near her. There is no easy solution, i understand this. I don't want to depress you but I reacted like this to some of the suggestions; how can you just sit down next to your mum and talk about it when your rage is pulsing away inside you? Any kind of affection from me to her or vice versa makes me so angry because I know its all such a pretence and fake. It makes me sick sometimes that i have to call her mum cos thats a word thats usually affectionate, and if she ever calls me "love" which she does sometimes then I feel so outraged at her for being such a lying (i could do with some support even anonymously). You are NOT alone.

#5 by Pat on 14/10/2007 17:10:13 (id-670).
my mum also hates me over my lil bro and somtimes hurts me so i talk to her and it does not work

#6 by Sio on 16/10/2007 17:00:14 (id-672).
I hate my mum. I live with her my step dad and there 2 kids an you can tel im not part of there 'family'. Ive managed to get a good job but im not on enough to move out yet. Me and my step dad HATE each other and she always takes his side. Ive moved out before to my nans but she died an now am back, so now ive got no1 to talk 2 anymore and i no i cant talk to my friends aba it coz ts embarrisin 2 have such a pathetc mum. I tried to sit my mum down ant talk but she just starts moanin an saying im selfish. Everytime i try and have a coversation with her she just starts feeling srry for herself so in the end i told her what i thought. Now no1 in the house is speakin to me and she says she is puttin my rent up to 250 a month wich is ridiculas really when we live on a council estate. But shes broke coz he stupid husband wont gt a job but she does not say anything jst moans at me. Any1 gt any ideas what i should do?

#7 by Ruby on 19/10/2007 17:19:25 (id-678).
I Hate my mum so much im on the verge of killing myself please someone give me some advise

#8 by Ruby on 19/10/2007 18:17:18 (id-679).
I Hate my mum so much im on the verge of killing myself please someone give me some advise

#9 by ciera on 20/11/2007 10:49:33 (id-764).
i hate my mum she blanes everything on me she starts fight with me and my nan and says i start them cause she shouts at me then my nan shouts at her she is an ugly cow when i have 2 clean up i clean she lies in bed all day then txts my nan and said i have done f*** all i love my dad but in a way i hate him she throws as i call it the dad card when we fight like "well why dont u ask r dad 2 put his hand in his pockett 4 a change ""its not like he will anyway" my dad has been in prison 4 drugs a few times and she says "why dont u ask ur dad 2 give u a fiver instead of sniffin powder" i hate her basicly

#10 by arghhh on 21/11/2007 22:07:44 (id-767).
i hate my mum 2... wen reading the comment ^^^ its like me. the story sounds like my readin my life! my mum is just so strange and acts like a little child having tantrums sumtimes i dont kno why my dad doesnt just leave her! i wud! yday she went, oh ur lookin a bit fat u should go on a diet... im a size 8, not being up myself, but she seems to say it to upset me! she gets in rages for absolutely nothing. my friends know, coz quite often im not out as much as them but they cant really sympathise. i really want to move out! its really stressful and i dont know what to do!?

#11 by Flange on 03/12/2007 12:54:41 (id-773).
LOL

#12 by Flange on 03/12/2007 12:54:55 (id-774).
LOL

#13 by Sorbs on 12/12/2007 21:52:01 (id-785).
Not bad. This is how i exactly feel about my mum but I don't hate her. Course I dont. But she makes my life a misery. She keeps saying that my dads girlfriend wont cope with me and she'll leave. Whatever, I know she will!

#14 by Sorbs on 12/12/2007 21:52:48 (id-786).
Not bad. This is how i exactly feel about my mum but I don't hate her. Course I dont. But she makes my life a misery. She keeps saying that my dads girlfriend wont cope with me and she'll leave. Whatever, I know she will!

#15 by Sorbs on 12/12/2007 21:53:32 (id-787).
I Mean my dads girlfriend WONT LEAVE!

#16 by Advice on 12/12/2007 21:57:00 (id-788).
Advice to ignore your mum:
Call 0800 1111(childline)
Lock youself in your room and do your own thing
If your mum makes a nasty comment just say 'yes' or 'yeah i know'!

#17 by Louis Blackburn on 13/12/2007 19:59:10 (id-792).
Yeah. I completely feel for you. my mother is nearly exactly like yours. she doesn't create arguments around the house, but she keeps me from my dad, and lies and b*****s (pardon the language) to get her own way. i got to select my GCSEs this year. seriously, I really fell for you

#18 by elaine on 22/12/2007 16:28:41 (id-811).
when i read this is seemed exactly lyk how im feelin. try to get out of the house more often. in my school people can stay till 8pm to do study. why dont you do something lyk that? you can then study and be in peace. hope i helped you
xxxxxx

#19 by Karla on 29/12/2007 00:32:20 (id-818).
Jeez there's a lot of mum hating going on here! Its really difficult from reading to work out the difference between who has a genuine nightmare mum and who may just be a teenager not getting on with their mum, when they are being a nightmare as well. And like someone said, people tend to assume the second option - that as a teenager its you rather than them. However I know from experience that there are just some mums out there who make life a misery - mine was one of them. She's still a pain in the ass and I moved out 10 years ago! At least now I have as little contact as I can.

When I look back there are things I could have done to make life easier for myself at the time when I had to live with her. Firstly obvious things like go out as much as possilbe, join loads of clubs, activities, evening classes, sports whatever so you are out the house as much as possible doing cool stuff. Secondly try to remain as calm as possible, not to react to her nastiness, be the adult. Thirdly try to work out if there are any things that make her act any better, treat it like an experiment. Lastly try and find a surrogate mum - hard to do obviously - but could be a friends mum, autie or failing that a counsellor. It makes a big difference. If all else fails think of anywhere else you might be able to live-nans, dads, friends etc. Also if you are over about 12 and have somewhere else to stay, just keep going there.
You have to look after yourself cos the person who is supposed to be looking after you aint doing a very good job of it. Good luck!

#20 by . on 08/01/2008 23:50:07 (id-835).
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#21 by kate ;[ on 13/01/2008 13:19:01 (id-860).
i feel the same way as u all. im 12 n u mite just say its my age but its not. i mean it, i hate my mum and my dad they make me feel unhappy and last night they left me on my own for about 7 hours,(literally) while they went for a meal at the resturant. i have no brothers or sisters jut a dog. i was bord so i went upstairs on my laptop and while i was up there my dog bit the wire of the alarm and electricuted himself. he nerly died and i phoned my mum and she said is he ok n i sed no n she sed she wud be home in a minute. she wasnt. i am sick of them to the point of i want to live with my nan. she isnt very nice either, but i wud rather live with her . my parents are making my life a misery. i have told my mum that she makes me want to harm myself. she just laffed. i dont think she has seen the scares on my arms yet. it doesnt sound like much but they have dun alot more than this. plz summ1 giv me advice =[

#22 by A lesson learned now... on 15/01/2008 10:14:42 (id-868).
You all have different circumstances but you all have to live with the unique circumstances that you have. One of the things that we all learn as we are growing up, even though we don't realise it at the time, is that whatever the situation we have to adjust and we have to learn to cope with it. As children we have to learn how to cope with brothers and sisters, through puberty we have to adjust to parents who want to see us as children while we want to be adults, as adults we have to cope with partners, relationships, home economics, marriage, divorce, jobs, bosses etc etc. The one thing we all learn as we go through life is that we never ever reach that point where the problems go away. What we eventually learn to accept is that we tolerate those around us, or we seek new relationships.
One thing that happens at 12 years old is that our bodies change, we can see that. The other thing that happens is that our bodies start pumping wild and unregulated amounts of chemicals called hormones into our bodies. These make us think in a wild way, we don't even know what is happening, we just feel mad, frustrated and helpless and our emotional responses swing from one second to the next.
There is nothing that any of us can do about it, except try and learn not to act on impulse. Never make a decision 'now', make it in an hour, or tomorrow. Yes, that helpless feeling will make us feel depressed but it passes. Eventually. The only advice that I can offer to anyone in this situation is to concentrate like hell on your schoolwork. It might not sound like fun, but working your way through 5 years now will both keep your mind focused, and at the end of it you will have better qualifications than you would otherwise have had, and that means a better job, more money, independence...and that means that you can go and live somewhere else if you want to. If you don't put the work in now, you are going to be stuck where you are for a very long time. So avoid the bad guys, don't get pregnant, or get anyone else pregnant, ignore the drugs and the gangs,don't let anyone stand in your way, know your own mind, know what you want, and go for it.

#23 by Robyn on 28/01/2008 16:29:01 (id-877).
My mum hates me and my twin, but she LOVES(and cares about) our horrible bully of a sister, Rebecca. She is older than us, but we just don't understand why our mum hates us so much! She always has, though she won't admit it. Its obvoius. She attacks us every day, and I always LONG to go to school, just to get away from her. My friends don't really understand, though I have sort of told them some of it. I don't know what to do about it, and whenever I say anything she just shouts at me. If I feel sick its because I haven't done my homework and want to bunk off school. Even at the Weekend! She also constantly imagines things that she's done(good) and things that we've done(ALL bad!).
So, I know how you feel. I also understand why she makes you feel sick, i feel sick when I'm around my mum!

#24 by Rola on 28/01/2008 20:53:38 (id-878).
Godd..All this makes me sooo angryy cuz i have just had another fight with my mum and sheee iss soo annoyingg!! because she dosnt let me go out with my matess at all!! I feel exactly the saame as You..And everyday i cry my eyes out and just keep it inside me and always pray that ill die..It isnt fair because all my friends are like do you want to come to my house, town.etc.. and im like no sorry i cant my mum said no..IM BLOODY 14 !!..anwyay i think some day all of us people should have a sawp over life and all my friendss with nice mums should see what its liek with my mum! and vice versa. God We cant all be quiet about this!

#25 by ???? on 16/02/2008 13:24:17 (id-893).
ma maw n da duz ma nut in

#26 by ???? on 16/02/2008 13:30:51 (id-894).
see fir the bit that ma maw n da duz ma nut in tht wiz just a joke n aww use hoo pit stuff like tht in ir widows :@
sick shites

#27 by bonnie on 18/02/2008 16:28:36 (id-896).
It makes me sad to read about all of the people who have had negative feelings about their mums. I am a mum to two grown children, who I absolutely adore, and they always tell me that they love me too. Please, try to come to some kind of understanding with your mums. I didn't really appreciate mine. Then one day, she wasn't there anymore. Now I wish I'd have sat down with her and said so many things, but it's too late for that. But I never ever gave her any cause to be ashamed of me. Try to sit with your mum and tell her how you feel, in a nice respectful manner. Make her a cup of her fave brew and have a heart to heart.. Who knows-you guys might even end up being best friends.

#28 by only 12!!! on 22/02/2008 17:58:13 (id-899).
hi, im 12 years old but i dont want to say my name just incase my mum or dad checks this website - that is how scared i am. my mum is always moaning about me, and i have so much pressure on me that i feel like im going to burst, noone understands that i am just 12 years old, and that sometimes i just want to have a bit of fun. when i do try to have some fun, i get into so much trouble, my mum and dad hit me and i hate it. everyone thinks im around 16 years old and they say its not just the appearance but you act very maturely, and i like that except that sometimes i just want to live like a 12 year old.
My mum doesn't let me go out much, hardly ever. Infact i went out with my friends only twice and that was when my friends mum was there! because i am not allowed to go out, i go on msn and chat to my friends from there but now my mum is going to take that away from me as well, so no more msn! i want some more freedom, and i tell her that if you treat me like im 16 years old then why cant i get the freedom of a 16 year old? she just laughs and says im too small! how predictable eh?
I have 2 sisters and they are both smaller than me. most of the time they drive me crazy, and i feel like dying because my mum never sees things from my point of view. the other times i just stay up in my room and cry until my eyes are so red that i can hardly see...
i have been depressed since march 2007, and thats when my birthday is, so back then i was hoping things would go up and i would be happier when it was my birthday, but they didnt even do anything, nothing! i was so upset that day that i cried, and ever since then i am depressed. i go to year 8 and at the moment i am having my halfterm tests. the school i go to gives me a lot of homework but now i just don't do any of it. i am trully not boasting but i am the most intelligent person in my class, my marks are the highest and everyone thinks im happy, which is completely th opposite of how i am feeling. My mum always forces me to do things and never leaves me alone! My dad goes to work in the weekdays but when he comes back on the weekend he also pressures me to do more and extra work. i want to become a doctor and help people when i grow up, but im scared that at the rate im going i may not be very successful, so my life would be ruined.
I feel like dying and most of the time i want to self harm myself. I have friends who self harm themselves and they have only minor problems, and when i see what they do to themselves i cry... i told one of them some of my problems and we cried together, and she asked me how i could stand it. i said i couldnt, i said that i just bottle it up and try very hard to make the people around me not notice how im feeling, because i am ashamed...
i cannot say that i understand everyone here, but i know how it feels to be isolated and blocked up, like you cant breathe and you just want to die... sorry if this was a bit long and i hope that all of you would become successful and independant, and you should fight for your rights. dont be scared to do so, you have the law behind you and NEVER be afraid to call people like Childline : 0800 11 11
try it, it will help =)

#29 by some 13 year old on 24/02/2008 12:46:40 (id-900).
hi i have been given an ultimantum get out or i will have the police esscort you out im so sick of my life sometimes i reall wish i was dead i h8 my life but i have so many friends i dont wanna leave i dont wanna die i just wanna start sum were new help plz

#30 by sofeena on 05/03/2008 00:38:10 (id-907).
It's always a sad thing when you realise you hate your mum, it made me hate myself for feeling that way with my mum but it's not something I can deny, I hate my mum and am afraid of her, I just hope that you do manage someday to either get on better with her or get away. Sometimes when a relationship cant be salvaged it's better to get away and move on before it gets worse. Good luck mate and good luck to those in a similar situation.

(Im 20 and I still haven't managed to get away from her and her housearrest, but maybe one day I'll get out)

#31 by why does she do it on 20/03/2008 21:03:01 (id-920).
She ignores me all the time and she can shout at me for no reason and all i can do is sit back and take it,otherwise she will get really angry and storm off.She has a really stern face sometimes and when i try to help her all she does is blame me when something goes wrong,like today she told me that i could go play with my friends and then when i got back she told me to help her and then when it went wrong she blamed it on me and then stormed off when i tryed to tell her that she did it and why was she blaming it on me.I dont hate her i hate the way she reacts.It gets me so angry sometimes.

#32 by ferny on 26/03/2008 20:06:26 (id-923).
i hate my mum this website is good my mum called me a bitch the other day im 11 and shes sending me to bed at 8 15 i only have 10 minutes left

#33 by fern on 26/03/2008 20:16:35 (id-924).
my mum is a cow cow cow

#34 by Melissa x on 31/03/2008 11:34:17 (id-933).
i also hate my mum atm. she wants to control everything in her life including me and mine. Shes always going on and on at me 2 study and work. and i do, really hard. but apperently not enough. i do about 3 hours a day. :-S
hardly ever see my mates. and then she wonders why im never going out.
im 15 and cannot w8 2 move out, 1st chance i get im going. She shouts at me calls me explicit names and degrades me and my personality.
but wen i do tel her stuff she gos and tells all her friends, and wen i see then they always bring it up and it embarasess me. i cannot trust her anymore, let alone love. i know i should cos seh looked after me and all wen i was little.... so i do feel bad.
But i just cant bring myself like her. we always fight and then she gos and phones up my dad and tells him.... so hes on her side. he never listens to me or my side...
x

#35 by Lizzie on 01/04/2008 12:02:04 (id-938).
Childline 0800 1111
sit down and talk with them (no perant likes being told that they are crap )
go out more - if you are not allowed, tell your perants that you are going to an after school club- hanging out with friends i heard :P they will buy that especially if they are pushing you to do school work.
If shes ignoring you, then just tell someone else...
If your mum has a mother in law, then tell her, its like an unspoken rivalry, infact tell most people =), chances are, that someone will speak up to her, and she will fee stupid and small, ...
If your mum is going behind your back and tattil tailing on your to your Dad or the such, then get to him first, tell him on the phone, i tend to find people are more understanding on the phone (Y)
If people dont beleive what you are going through (grandperants, Dads) make recordings on phones or something, they will have no choice but to beleive you then,
If you really hate your mum you might want to get revenge... ;)
cut off the phone when ses speaking to someone.. worms in the bed. Thing is she will probably smack you, smack her back or say something like, was that sposed to hurt, maybe cry run out the house tell the neighbours,
if you dont want to tell your mum that shes a frigin idiot to her face, then write a letter. Another thing you could do, is tell your mums friends about the whole shindig, ORRR tell them about how she masurbates, peed herself last night, used to be a pole dancer, brings lesbian partners back to the house, and all that jazz :D ,
Now about you...
Youve got to find something that you enjoy, maybe have a run jog or walk or some sort of excercise (it makes you happy.. it ACTUALLY does)
Find a comeadian you like Lee Evans or someone watch him on youtube (.com) maybe Peter Kay ... they will make you happy.. =D Join a club, Boxing maybe to help you take your anger out (pretend the punchbag is your mum) :P
Things can only get better... Silver lining to every cloud - find that one person who you can really talk to.
My MSN is Lizzie._Bean and then this bit @hotmail.com if you want any more advice XD
Best wishes, i hope this helped =) xx

#36 by richard richard on 03/04/2008 01:58:54 (id-940).
YOUR JUST A STUPID LTTLE KID GROW THE FUCK UP AND SHUT UP

PEOPLE ARE DYING ALL OVER THE WORLD, DON'T MAKE OUT YOUR LIFE IS SO TERRIBLE. AHH DICKS LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO TOPP THEMSELVES

#37 by bailey on 06/04/2008 23:17:19 (id-947).
"YOUR JUST A STUPID LTTLE KID GROW THE FUCK UP AND SHUT UP

PEOPLE ARE DYING ALL OVER THE WORLD, DON'T MAKE OUT YOUR LIFE IS SO TERRIBLE. AHH DICKS LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO TOPP THEMSELVES"

Do u know what this site is for? Its for people to let off steam and tell somebody who they don't know, who are usually a bit more understanding, how they really feel. Not for silly little p***ks like you to come on and say things like that, we all know that there are far worse things going on in the world but everybody has hardships in their lives, however trivial they may seem to you, so what gives you the right to make people feel guilty about talking about things that they feel down about. Which is what this site is for, if you don't like people indulging in their deepest feelings then don't come on sites like this.

#38 by lily may marshall on 14/04/2008 20:08:14 (id-960).
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#39 by she is a bitch!!! on 17/04/2008 21:27:33 (id-962).
i hate my mum she never does what she say she going to do and never listens and she has to be right she never used to be like this. It like she the teenager. I tried talking to her but she didnt listen, like she would do. I dont no what to do. I tried running away but where i live is not very nice so i came home. When i came back she wasnt very interested. I dont no what to do. I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!

#40 by Ellen on 20/04/2008 18:20:03 (id-965).
Hi Read Your Story I Know How u Feel!!!!.My Mum Is Such a Cow 2 She grounds Meh 4r The most simplest things She wont let meh have a boyfriend and she wont let meh go near boys!!.She is such a snob!!!.And she tells meeh who 2 hang around with and not to hang around with and i hate it!!!

#41 by Luxmi on 20/04/2008 21:53:31 (id-967).
Im going to be 21 years old and my parents still dont let me do anything. they call me a failure, they call me fat when im only a size ten and actually look good (not being arrogant but its true) and they always put me down. Imagine being 21 in two months knowing that your life will be the same because you're an indian girl who has to stay at home and just study all day long until you get married.I'm not allowed to go out, and I never had a childhood that had anything fun in it. My mum cheated and I caught her when I was little and now I hate her. I don't tell my dad because he has enough worries and I don't want to worry him more.Today she told me not to eat the dinner she cooked, she let everyone eat first and then when there were a few scraps left, she told me to help myself. every single day when I pick up a cup of tea to drink or have a slice of toast my mum tells me I'm overweight. It's destroyed my confidence in me that wherever I have to go, I always wear a jacket, always cover myslef up. I really want to leave, but I have no where to go. None of my family would take me in because they are all the same. I have no present, no past and worst of all no future.I study well and get good grades, I'm in university right now. But that still gives me no freedom. As soon as my lectures are over, I have to come straight back and study until dinner and then until bed. I'm basically a person who is not allowed to live. And worst of all, my mum makes my life a misery and she always compares me to my sister who is a doctor, who is the "golden child" and who is perfect. My life is like living in hell already, so when I die and if I go to hell, I'll be ready because it will just be another roadtrip for me.

#42 by Zoe on 22/04/2008 10:17:02 (id-970).
I have read all your comments, and some are very upsetting, being an adult the only advice I can give is, you don`t have to put up with the hurtful comments you are getting from your parents , it is psychological abuse, if you think this is happening to you then phone childline or better still keep a diary of events and contact Social Servises. (I wish I had when I was your age).
Take Care

#43 by Tom James Nixon on 29/04/2008 16:45:53 (id-981).
Hello i am 16 and i live in barrow, my mum calls me fat when i am not! So i ran away and i now stay at my friends house, life has picked up, JUST RUN AWAY!!!

#44 by my mum on 30/04/2008 20:39:43 (id-983).
i hate my mum

#45 by Luxmi on 03/05/2008 20:02:31 (id-984).
Today my mum came back from holiday - she went for a week, and life was actually good for a while. She called me fat, ugly, obese etc the second day she was back. This got me very depressed again, and now I feel lower then ever. I don't know what to do, everytime I look in the mirror I feel so ugly and now I'm ashamed to go to uni because I know everyone thinks the same. I have my finals in three weeks, finding it difficult to revise because of all this, I just keep on trying to do things to take my mind off the things my mum says.

#46 by louise hains on 06/05/2008 11:35:29 (id-993).
today my mum grounded me for nothin i get locked in my room by her im relly scaird my brothers and sister just laphgh at me some times i wish im in a diffrent familly once she grabbed me around the neck when i was 8. i feel im no needed in my family. ever since my mum and dad split up they were mad and kept us with a chose i was ony about 6 when they split up

#47 by affad on 08/05/2008 09:45:10 (id-996).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#48 by affad on 08/05/2008 10:03:30 (id-997).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#49 by affad on 08/05/2008 10:03:50 (id-998).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#50 by affad on 08/05/2008 10:04:07 (id-999).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#51 by affad on 08/05/2008 10:04:08 (id-1000).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#52 by affad on 08/05/2008 10:04:10 (id-1001).
i hate my mom,. she wont let me go out cos of a fucking indian guy which got bashed on the news.

i wanna smack that cunt

#53 by i hate her on 10/05/2008 12:55:40 (id-1003).
she says i can do something so i ask to get it for me then she takes 3 hours to get has a go at me because she says i dont have enough time and its all my falt

#54 by hate her on 11/05/2008 17:02:09 (id-1005).
i hate my mum...my mum is using my recent tests at school as an excuse to blame me for everything. My younger brother gets away with everything now because i apparently in her eyes have an "attitude problem" im quiet and am not like giddy and loud all the time...so she finds every excuse to blame things on me. I can't tell her anything, she looks and dresses like a man to humiliate me infront of my friends and she only buys either mens clothes or second hand clothes. My brother who is the most annoying child you could wish to meet swears and blames everything on me and gets away with it...my dad is away alot with work and when he is away if me and my mum fall out she calls him and twists the story so hell stick up for her. Also im not allowed to text my dad while he is away because it costs to much and if i do and refuse to tell her what is on the text she will call him...I dont know alot about my mother but she has things she keeps from me that im apparently not allowed to know until im 18...I overheard my grandparents and her talking and i now know that she was adopted. I intend to tell her, then she'll know im not as stupid as she thinks i am.

#55 by HAATE THEM!!! on 15/05/2008 18:10:28 (id-1007).
I am pure isolated and i wish i could just walk to skool on my own or maybe walk home on my own... i'm fckin 13 and i have foned childline 08001111 but they didnt believe me!!!!!!!! I NEED HELP

I only get a piece of bread and a baby bowl of soup...
i just sneaked my Laptop from my CARERS and hve wrote this message
if i get caught i will get locked in the fridge again.... NOOOO IT'S NOT A JOKE THEY DO DO IT TO ME BECAUSE I HAD IT DONE 2 WEEKS AGO FOR GOING OUT AT BREAK FROM SKOOL

It's freezing and you should see my SCAR on my side where my man carer Shaun shagged me and burnt me with a lighter coz i wriggled trying to escape

Sorry this is so LONG bye xx

#56 by Grim Reaper on 17/05/2008 22:21:25 (id-1009).
Kill Her.

#57 by i hate her on 18/05/2008 13:48:37 (id-1010).
i hate my mom shes weird
i mean i say stop she says its my fault
sumtimes she acts nice but i know its an act
y cant she jus ignore me and let me go
damn my life is shit

#58 by Hate hate! on 29/05/2008 07:10:26 (id-1015).
sometimes my mum can be nice.. but sometimes she can be mean.. like really mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cuz once she teased me a lot and smacked me twice... I hate her!

#59 by xx on 29/05/2008 18:17:16 (id-1016).
I just hate my mum gahd gahd gahd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#60 by fred on 16/06/2008 22:25:00 (id-1039).
Totaly disagree with "sitting down and talking".. that happens in shitty romance movies not in real life. You can't patch things up by having a conversation - unfortunately. Best bet is to do things before you're asked, do homework or coursework as soon as you come home (you get distracted towards the evening), and the last thing to do is run away or shout back twice as loud.

Even if she still ballocks you, just wait it out. I found my mum treated me less like a kid and more like an adult as time went on, and now we're fine. Even if she's wrong about somthing and can't admit it (mum's are dappy cows) just go with it, and avoid bitching at your mum when she comes in from work AT ALL COSTS. Last thing she wants to hear after a shitty day at the office is "you put my clothes in the wrong draw, whens dinner, can you drive me to tescos, are those wrinkles?" BLAH BLAH BLAH

Follow dis guide, and housetrain that BITCH

#61 by Hayley on 18/06/2008 17:04:59 (id-1044).
I agree - i hate my mum too.
But she wont even listen to me when i try and say anything. evewn if it's just like 'will i have time to get a showeer after school before we go out?' she'll ignore my and get really angry for no reason

#62 by wow on 23/06/2008 12:02:10 (id-1061).
You just described my mum ... i hate her!!!

#63 by me :-) on 30/06/2008 23:05:19 (id-1080).
OMG!! my mum is EXACTLY the same! she thinks she is always right no matter wot and she does my head in. thank god tho i am moving out to my dads. YAY!!!!

#64 by sophie on 06/07/2008 09:01:59 (id-1089).
my mum is not caring about me

#65 by jsdfkwearnhkgtjen,kqjh on 06/07/2008 09:06:33 (id-1090).
I hate my mum because she grounded me for nothing and she dose not care about me

#66 by the guy hu h8 his mum on 09/07/2008 19:07:31 (id-1094).
i fukin h8 my mum shes a cow hu never listens to me

#67 by Anon. on 19/07/2008 22:20:55 (id-1098).
I feel the exact same way. I ahte it she starts argueing with me for no reason and sometime i think to myself that she did not want me born and now she has to live with me, i can tell she loves my two brothers and my sister so much but me she absolutely hates. She calls me names wich actually make me cry and when i try telling her how i feel she starts to laugh not realising how serious i take it.

#68 by tammy on 22/07/2008 10:52:22 (id-1104).
i hate my mum because she will not let my have my hair done for £6.00

#69 by pretty pink princess kirstie xxxxx on 22/07/2008 21:21:32 (id-1105).
i hate my mum she broke up wid her boyfriend coz the social services sed she cant see him any more coz mi brother told them that he waas on drugs sooo now im on child protection and that man has ruiend my life by i cnt c my sis any more and brother any wai my mum tinks shes stupid and shes secretly meetin him im not thick like her and we av hardly got any money and shes spending money on food for him !!!! i wanna die im only 12 :::(

#70 by sabrina on 25/07/2008 13:39:33 (id-1109).
u guys i read all ur coments but my mum is somtimes nise to me if i was u i will just be nise to ur mum then she would be nise to u i sweaw because who used look after u wn u wre young.

#71 by claud on 25/07/2008 15:12:32 (id-1110).
i hate my mum cause she spends all my money on her and she has millions of shoes help me what should i do?:((((((((((((((

#72 by aaa13 on 03/08/2008 00:12:25 (id-1120).
she takes the money you earn on shoes?! aaaaaaaaaah!

#73 by Sophie on 03/08/2008 22:21:48 (id-1121).
i hate my mum she think she is the boss of me but she anit i feel like hiting her cus i one her to start treating me with some respect cus i am not 2 years old from sophie can you give me some respect

#74 by ells bells on 04/08/2008 13:31:25 (id-1122).
i hate mi mum all she cares about is my 1 year old bro as soon as i grab the remot
to switch chanels she says keep this on for your brother then i say noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
she sends me to my room

#75 by mum htter on 07/08/2008 12:38:03 (id-1126).
my mum is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
mean i ask her to do my hair she dose it perfect but after puts her hand all over it and rewends it and she dont even notice huhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i hate her

#76 by Georgiie on 10/08/2008 17:39:16 (id-1148).
eugh i hate my mum shes like so annoying. wont let me do anything an just gets on my back like all the time! eee ugly bint

#77 by pretty pink princess kirstie xxxxx on 11/08/2008 13:44:48 (id-1149).
i hate my old friend d.... shes a fukin fat bitch man! hore and we all no shes a lezbian shes onli 12 !

shes dirty and dont wash she smells of fish and alw8s talks about food !

yes shees obese ! rikki bbe i luvv uu x-x-x-

#78 by kiki on 12/08/2008 15:20:59 (id-1151).
i fucking hate my mum she is making my life soo miserable i dont wont to talk to her anymore

#79 by Alex on 17/08/2008 23:09:42 (id-1153).
Your blog is interesting!

Keep up the good work!

#80 by anna on 25/08/2008 21:19:57 (id-1156).
god i sooo agrea im coming up to my gcses as well and my mum has been all like well you need to get everything in perspective and you need to stop clinging on to this guy cause he wont be there for ever ! i meen hello what is she trying to brake me and my bf up or something thats like so totally unfair, god i feel like so alone and uptight and to make it worse my so called m8es think im like boring or something god i sound like a total lazz. somone help!
xxxxx

#81 by . on 08/09/2008 21:27:04 (id-1172).
I HAVENT SPOKE TO MY MUM FOR A YEAR AND WE LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE, YET SHE STILL GETS ON MY NERVES. IM AT THE POINT NOW WHERE I WILL BURN EVERY MEMBER OF MY FAMILY TO GET RID OF HER GENE'S. FUKING BITCH I HOPE SOMEONE RAPES, SHOOTS, CHOKES OR STICKS A BANANA IN HER FUKING GOB, FUKTARD OF A HUMAN BEING SHE IS, FOCK HER

#82 by help on 12/09/2008 20:04:47 (id-1174).
oh my gdness. guys what if i told u that i have a bk that if u read it over and over again, it would change things with ur mum and make u feel betr?

#83 by me on 20/09/2008 11:02:42 (id-1177).
IFUKIN H8 MINE SHE NEVR SHUTS THE FUK UP SHES ANOYIN

#84 by v on 23/09/2008 10:46:44 (id-1208).
ma mum is a Bitch man! She can be nice Sometimes but she is always being selfish and thinks she is always right with whatever she does and she can't stad it when I start yellin at her bak coz she was yewlling at me and she is a crap mom she doesnt know about any of ma life and I HATE HER!! BItch slut!!! Sometime I jst want her to die but I dont jst a thot... HAHA she is such a bitch I want to kill her sometimes!!

#85 by CHEESY TOE WORLD on 23/09/2008 17:35:52 (id-1257).
fuk the world it smells of cheese every 1 s gay even mica barry on her larry

#86 by by sxc eye on 24/09/2008 11:56:25 (id-1261).
heyaa ive RED ALL UR MESSAGES U CUNTS AND THERE ALL FAKE THERES MORE PPL BADDER DAN YHOO GUYS SO SHUT DA FUK UP WANKERS CANCER HEAD PINK BALD AND ALL DAT YH IM A GAY SO DNT TAKE THE MIKI YH YH DATS WOT I THOUGHT U CUNTS ILL BBEAT U UP ANY DAI INIT IM FROM AMERICA U WANKERS

#87 by mad on 24/09/2008 15:17:59 (id-1263).
i hate that bitch>mum) she makes me sick i wish she just die and goes to hell , i swear she is so crazy i fucking hate her . fuck u bitch ,she is so retarted and i fucking hate my sis she makes me sick too
i dont know like pepole die every day why dont they die !!!!!! i bet thier bitches and witches

#88 by . on 24/09/2008 23:15:24 (id-1264).
I hate my fuken sis too that fuken bitch. I hate my mum more though that fuking dikshit bitch cunt fuktard jackass.

#89 by Ishaa on 27/09/2008 18:06:32 (id-1266).
I love my mum sssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo MUCH. I can't get away from my mum i love here. Love your mum she'l LOVE you and respct you for who you are.From Isha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx nick name cool cat. xx

#90 by Rocky on 29/09/2008 16:50:53 (id-1268).
I do not hate my mum nobady can hate their mum

just remember
be grateful you have a mum.

#91 by marth on 29/09/2008 17:48:04 (id-1269).
I absaloutly hate my mum she shouts at me everyday and I might tell the police and all of my friends

#92 by Khaled on 29/09/2008 20:11:36 (id-1270).
hey there evry1 i fee like shit otday as well its like the worlds goign round the crap corner again!
i just had a super fall out with my mum and shit reliazing shes a wee fucking grass but hey thats mums im grateful i have a mum and i love her but right now i really cant be arsed with ehr or ne1 in my family
jsu sayin it happens to all of us

#93 by Hello on 02/10/2008 05:20:17 (id-1273).
What the fuck? Your all little stupid girls...have you not seen the answer that lies infront of you? Just kill her, worked for me. Guns work best.

Happy Killing :D

#94 by :@ on 02/10/2008 17:22:56 (id-1274).
argh ur all fucking idiots.
if your mum was really THAT bad you wouldnt be telling everyone like this and im sure they ent..ring the police if theyre abusing u or something REALLY bad.
theres ppl who have 20x worse lifes than you so if ur makin it up or exagerating ur all sick cunts.
if they just yell at you or something WAKE UP basically every mum does that.
and ppl who told to go kill their mum..ur scum, go kill URSELF.

#95 by sarz on 03/10/2008 22:19:34 (id-1276).
hey i just read your article there i actually totaly understand you i cant stand my mum either we never get on and she either makes me upset or feel like killing someone icant stand the bitch she ruins my life

#96 by unfair on 04/10/2008 17:56:23 (id-1277).
I dislike my mum because she treats me and my sister diffrent. As a child i grew up in a flat half of my child hood i got no computer, internet, msn or mobile phone she never bought me hardly any new clothes, shoes or anything. My sister however gets to live in a nice house and gets all of the above and more. She will go out her way to help my sister but not me. She gives my other sister respect even though my sister treats her like shit and is a lot younger and less intelligent than me.

#97 by unfair on 04/10/2008 18:58:03 (id-1278).
comment 94 what your saying is wrong. Its hard for some people to understand and beleive probabily because they have been brought up well from a nice families but things like this unfortunatley do go on as im living proof of this. My mum herself will openly admit that she was treated diffrentley from her older sister by her mother who favoured her older sister over my mother.

#98 by jimbob on 05/10/2008 10:35:41 (id-1279).
Maybe your mum is going through menopause? How old is she? A lot of women become extremely irritable and moody when they go through 'the change'. Menopause is associated with a lot of psychological disturbances that can last for a long time - 10 years or more in fact.

#99 by Amber on 05/10/2008 22:11:57 (id-1280).
i just typed into google "i hate my mum", because i wasnt sure how i feel about her. i just read your story, i really feel for you - your mum shouldnt be like that, i thought my mum was bad :-| ! .. if you cants sort things out with your mum, have you got a gran, aunty that you could live with for a while. looks like you guys both need some breathing space. hope everything goes well xx

#100 by Amber on 05/10/2008 22:15:49 (id-1281).
i just typed into google "i hate my mum", because i wasnt sure how i feel about her. i just read your story, i really feel for you - your mum shouldnt be like that, i thought my mum was bad :-| ! .. if you cants sort things out with your mum, have you got a gran, aunty that you could live with for a while. looks like you guys both need some breathing space. hope everything goes well xx

#101 by MUM hater on 06/10/2008 16:34:53 (id-1282).
UHRGHHHHHHHHHHH my mum is so annoying she NEVER lets me go out delteded my fav game of PC IM BORED OF MY SKIN!

#102 by unfair on 09/10/2008 16:33:20 (id-1284).
i do but my family isnt that close we dont have that type of relationship in my family which is sad.

#103 by cheesy eyeball coverd in poo on 10/10/2008 18:19:21 (id-1285).
i like to eat poo

and every 1s got cancer

pink bald cancer hed

shame if yhoo have nits

#104 by lissy :| on 11/10/2008 20:15:19 (id-1286).
i hate my mum!! and my half sister! i wish they were all dead! and my stepdad

True life stories.

i hate my mum

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