i hate my mum

#1 by Writer of \'How can someone you love hurt you so much\' on 21/03/2007 21:42:48 (id-514).
I can understand where u r coming from, please see my story, try to talk to her when she is in a rational state, it sometimes helps. I havnt spoken to my Mum for 2 and a half months, for some of the same reasons, i decided i couldnt take anymore, and i feel better now i have moved on. Im not sayin it is the answer for you but i know how hard it can be when someone u love hurts you so much. Talk to your friends, find someone who understands.
My Mum is now trying to make her way back into my life and say she is sorry, she says she realises her mistakes... Its up to u... Comment on my story and tell me what u think?... Take Care xxx

#2 by Some advice on 29/03/2007 16:24:52 (id-521).
Many people have the same dilemma as you, so you may want to chat to people that would understand your situation. There are lots of abusive parents out there and many of the children have no idea what to do. It is likely that your mum was abused by her parents, so it will become a cycle of abuse if you ever have children. The best thing to do would be to call your father, explain to him that living with your mother is just far too unbearable anymore, and that she is mentally and physically abusive towards you. Tell him to come over and pick you up right away. Then your father will be there to protect you when you tell your mother, and make sure he doesn't leave without you. When you are older you must make sure you forgive your mother, its quite obvious that she has had problems and unless you forgive and forget there is no way that this cycle of pain will end. But don't allow her back into your life until you are old enough to stand on your own two feet, she may coax you back in but stand firm - it is unlikely that she will change her ways so it is not up to you to change her. Well i hope I have helped, and I hope everything turns out o.k.

#3 by fazza on 01/04/2007 09:18:07 (id-522).
i no how u feel my mum and dad have split up two n now my mum treats me like a peice of rubish,sometimes she can be really nice and then suddenly she flips on me. like she find some of my clothes on the floor and just starts shouting at me when my dad comes overs to se me she just always abuses him i feel like crying when she hurts his feeling.Anyway i think you should just sit down with your mum and talk to her if you are a bit scared maybe you should exspress your feeling on a website like this. if it gets really bad you might have to ring up a childline but im shore u wont have 2 you could tell your dad to speek to her maybe.anyway i hope i have helped you keep safe xxx bye

#4 by i hate my mum on 13/04/2007 21:47:59 (id-523).
i kno how exctly how ure feelin- ma mum is horrible- i ahte her soooo much dat i cant even think str8. i feel lyke kilin maself 2- but i hear it hurts :) i dunno i plan on neva tlkin 2 ma mum eva agen, but ill neva advise dat 2 oder ppl- god i hate dat bitch- if she werent ma mum, i guarntee id already have beena murderer ryte now.

#5 by shorty n ginga ninga on 14/04/2007 00:33:14 (id-524).
if ur dad cares move in with him i did n lifes so much better it gets hard at tymes but just hang in there itll get better or u cud just kill urself n get itova n dun wit but u hurt mo peeps doin that than if u jus move in wit ur dad think bout it u gta b cruel 2 b kind xx shorty n ginga ninga xx

#7 by pisshand on 28/04/2007 22:33:36 (id-548).
mi mums like dat shes a bitch she shouts @ me 4 the slightest mistakes she trust ova ppl thn me she onli shouts @ me + neva praise me wen i help round the chinese shop me dad owns + neva eva says srry infact jus find som other faults 2 shout out i'll
,jus go wit ur dad go wit ur heart

#8 by Bj on 29/04/2007 21:45:59 (id-549).
Same ere me mum always shouts at me, im always getting-done
For
Everything
I hate my
Mum so much. But da problem is my dad is da same

#9 by luke on 10/08/2007 17:27:45 (id-618).
my mum just sold my dogs 4 what she wants and she has spit up with ny dad and wants a bloke !! she is evil

#10 by dan on 30/03/2008 13:46:14 (id-932).
my dad and my mum are always shouting at me my dad always hits me and my mum justs sits there and agrees.

#11 by bambii on 11/04/2008 12:51:58 (id-957).
yooh should just goo i did it... it was the rightthing to doo yooh should go to your dads house live a happy life there follow your heart no matter what other people think

#12 by jim on 20/04/2008 19:55:12 (id-966).
my mum and dad blame everything on me and my brother dose is most of the time they hurt me and shout at me what do i do?

#13 by ala on 16/05/2008 20:32:07 (id-1008).
dont worry my mum just shouted at me and i feel terrible now she will probably not talk to me for weeks so just talk to another adult such as your aunt, granny etc and just talk to them it will help thats what I did that helped she just shouted at me now because of bad grades :(

#14 by abbie barsby on 26/05/2008 08:18:11 (id-1013).
just get your dad to pick you up and text your mum and tell her were you are and how you feeland she might start to care for you!iknow how you feel because my mum is a bitch i jut want to live with my dad can eneyone help me

#15 by jermy on 21/06/2008 16:55:04 (id-1053).
i totallly dig u guys, i was meant to go to wembley with my bro 4 a party, but my mum went out with stepdad and left me @ home. I hate the woman,she is thick as shit and a complete hypocrit. I wish i could live with ma dad but he lives like 15 mins away n i wouldn't b able to get myself to school.

#17 by bombbomb00 on 12/07/2008 13:29:45 (id-1096).
i hate my mam she spoils everyone but me i have to buy everything 4 my self and she make me clean and ive slept out side b4

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