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Pregnant and Scared

Im 19 and just found out im pregnant. The father is my loving long term boyfriend but he's said he doesn't want kids yet because he's too young (he's 23). I live with his family, I have no money and can't afford a house. Not only that my mum will kill me if she found out. This wasn't planned and come as a complete shock. Thing is y should I be selfish and abort it and not give it a chance in life because of a mistake I made. I've always said i'd never have an abortion but I'm really stuck. I would love to have this child but I can't afford it. It's tearing me up, what should i do? Please help me...

Story shared: 13/03/2007 20:36:30

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#1 by A on 16/04/2007 21:30:20 (id-527).
i know it may be hard because you know its not fair to abort the baby, but it is also not fair to bring it up in an unstable environment where you cant afford it. but if you want to have the baby, im sure you would be a good mum and do the best you can. if you give the baby your love and work hard, you'll be alright in the end. but if you do choose to have an abortion, try not to feel guilty because both situations have good and bad points. if you do choose to have an abortion, you are still young and have plenty of timeto move on. if you do have the baby, congratulations! and im sure youd be a good mum if you give it your all :)

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