Obsessed
I'm currently at school and I have become completely obsessed with someone five years younger than me. Not obsessed in the sense that I want a "relationship" with them, but strangely obsessed in a way in which I simply want to be their "friend". I don't understand it at all.
I met this person in a school club which has now ended. Since then all I have been able to think about is them. I am constantly "searching" for them and trying to strike conversation with them. I'm hurting because this kind of behaviour is weird and I don't understand why I am so obsessed with them.
I'm feeling really down and would appreciate any advice.
Story shared: 19/09/2006 11:13:55
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I hope that you receive some good words of advice from others that might also be dealing with the same.
Best wishes, CJ
I hope that you receive some good words of advice from others that might also be dealing with the same.
Best wishes, CJ
I had the same experience a year back.
I was in the school play and I had goty quite a major part. I was to play the boyfriend of a Chillean girl which the play revolved around. At the time I was only in year 10, age 15, and I had never done anything like it before.
When rehersals started and I met this other girl called 'Lofty' I thought we'd be friends even though she was 2 maybe 3 years older than me. She had been my idol for the past 2 years becasue she's been in every school play since the beginning of time, but in a good sense. So anyway, as the weeks moved on, I also started looking out for her in the corridor, trying to be funny and impress her. It became an obsession, I mean I even knew on what days I might see her in the corridor! It was getting serious.
Never did I think anything dodgy or approach her about the subject, it just got worse.
I finally realized after many weeks thinking about her over and over, what it was that attracted me to her. She was everything I wanted to be.
After realizing this, when I saw her in the corridor I told myself to stop it and it worked! I had to make myself but after realizing what it was I liked about her I felt I could relax becasue I had answers.
So, my advice to you would be to really try and work out what about her is making you obsessed. And calm down, everyone and I mean EVERYONE has obsessions sometimes even if they're not brave enough to write them down.
Don't worry, ul b fine
Good luck
Best Wishes x
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